*SUHAAG RAAT*

Suhaag raat har no biyaahay mard aur aurat kay liye zindagi ki aik ehem aur anmol ghari hai, jis ka saalon se dono ko intazaar rehta hai, shohar aur bivi dono kay liye zaroori hai keh woh dono is raat kay liye apnay aap ko zehni tor par tayaar rakhein, dulhaa apni dulhan kay liye apni sari muhabbaton aur umangon ko sambhalay rakhay aur dulhan bhi apnay banaao singhaar, naaz o ‘ashwah aur dilrubaai o dill faraibi kay jalwon se apnay shohar kay dill ko jeet lay.

Hazrat ismaa Bint e Yazeed Bin Alaskin se riwaayat hai, farmati hein:

Main ne Rasool Ullah (ﷺ) kay liye Hazrat Aayesha (رضى الله تعالى عنہا ) ko aarastah aur perastah Kiya, phir unhein khidmat Aqdas mein liye hazir hoi, aur aap (ﷺ) ko un kay ghoongat ko uthanay ki dawat di, aap Hazrat Aayesha (رضی اللہ عنہا) kay baazu mein tashreef laaye, phir aap ki khidmat mein doodh ka aik piyalaa pesh kiya gaya, aap ne usay ghont ghont piya phir Hazrat Aayesha ki taraf piyalaa barha dia, unhon ne sharma kar sar ko jhukaa lia Hazrat asmaa farmati hein:

“Main ne Hazrat Aayesha ki sarzinsh ki aur kaha keh Rasool Ullah (ﷺ) kay hath se woh piyalaa lay lo, rawi kehti hein:”

“Tab Hazrat Aayesha ne woh piyalaa lia aur kuch doodh nosh farmaaya.”

Jab dulhaa dulhan kay pass aaye to us ki peshaani ko pakar kar Allah ka naam lay kar(بسم الله kahay) aur yeh duaa parhay:

اَللّٰہُمَّ إِنِّیْ اَسْئَلُکَ خَیْرَہَا وَخَیْرَ مَا جَبَلْتَہَا عَلَیْہِ وَاَعُوْذُبِکَ مِنْ شَرِّہَا وَشَرِّ مَا جَبَلْتَہَا عَلَیْہِ” ( بخاری ، ابو داود ابن ماجہ )

Aey Allah!

main tujh se is ki bhalai mangtaa hun aur is bhalai ka mutalba kartaa hun jis par tu ne is ko paidah kiya hai ( yani jo is ki sarshat aur fitrat mein dakhil hai ) aey Allah!

main is kay shar se aur jis shar par tu ne isay paidah kiya hai is se teri hifazat talab karta hun.

Ho sakay to dulhaa dulhan dono aik sath mil kar do raka’at namaaz parhein, Hazrat Abdullah Bin Mas’ood (رضي الله عنه) kay pass aik aisa shakhs aaya jis ne aik Kanwari larki se shadi ki thi aur jisay khadsha tha keh larki us se buggz rakhay gi, aap ne usay naseehat kartay hue farmaaya:

“Jab tu us kay pass jana to usay do raka’at prhny KY Liye khna or phir ye Dua parhan

اَللّٰہُمَّ اجْمَعْ بَیْنَنَا مَا جَمَعْتَ بِخَیْرٍ وَفَرِّقْ بَیْنَنَا إِذَا فَرَّقْتَ بِخَیْرٍ”(طبرانی بسند صحیح:)

“Yaa Allah!

meray ahil-o-ayal mein barkat a’ata farmaa aur un kay liye meray andar barkat farmaa,

jab tak humein yakjaa rakh to khair aur bhalai Kay aath ikatha rakh, jab humain Alehda karna to khair aur bhalai se alehda karna.”

Jab shohar apni rafeeqa e hayat Kay pass humbistari kay liye jaaye to yeh duaa parhay:

بِسْمِ اللّٰہِ

اَللّٰہُمَّ جَنِّبْنِی الشَّیْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّیْطَانَ مَارَزَقْتَنا (بخاری )

Allah kay naam se, aey Allah ! hum dono ko shaitaan se mehfooz farma, aur jo aulaad humein day us ko bhi shaitaan se mehfooz rakh.

Rasool Ullah (ﷺ) ne irshad farmaaya keh:

“Is duaa ko parh lenay kay baad agar Allah Ta’alaa ne unhein aulaad a’ata farmai to woh shaitani asraat se paak hogi.”

Is ehem raat ko kuch log apni ayaashi ka yaadgar din qaraar denay kay liye fasq o fajoor aur sharaab kay nasha mein dhut ho kar hijlaa uroosi mein qadam rakhtay hein,

un ka madsood is se siwaye aesh o i’ishrat kay aur kuch nahi hota, is raat apni biviyon kay sath badsalooki kartay hain, jinsi milaap kay liye bas toot partay hein, azdawaji zindagi ki pehli raat aagay chal kar miyan bivi ki zindagiyon mein nafrat ka beej bo deti hai, bas chnd din bhi nahi guzartay jab jawani ki masti ka khumaar ahista ahista utarnay lagta hai to phir un ki zindagiyon mein woh fasaad zahir hota keh ala aaman ul hafeez. sach hai:

خشت اول چوں نہر معمار كج. تا ثريا مي رود ديوار كج

Jab pehli hi eent m’amaar terhi rakhta hai to suraiya tak bhi agar dewaar chali jaaye to woh terhi hi hogi.

REFERENCE:

Book: Aulaad ki islami Tarbiyat

Taaleef: “Muhammad Anwar Muhammad Qasim Al Salfi”