Sayyidah Reeta Bint-e-Munabbah رضى الله عنها

 

Miyan biwi kay islam qabool karnay ki dastan:

 

Nam Reeta, Walid ka nam Munabbah Bin Hajjaj tha. Yeh Quraish kay un afraad mein say tha jo Jang-e-Badar mein qatal huaye. Reeta kay khawanad ka nam Amar Bin Aas Bin Waail Sahmi tha. Us kay haan beta huwa jis ka nam Amar Bin Aas rakha gaya, Jab woh musalman huwa to Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay us ka nam Abdullah rakh diya. (Al-Isabah: (2/158))

Ibtida mein to Amar Bin Aas Islam ka dushman tha, Yeh us wafad mein shamil tha jis ko Quraish nay Habsha kay hukumran Najashi ki taraf bheja, Taa’keh woh Musalman Muhajireen ko wapis kar day. Yeh wafad Habsha kay hukumran aur mazhabi rahnumaon kay liye bhot say tahaaif apnay sath lay kar gaya. Lekin Habsha kay hukumran Najashi nay Jafar Bin Abi Talib aur deegar Muhajireen ko apnay darbar mein bulaya, Taa’keh woh un say apnay mulak say hijrat karnay ka sabab daryafat kar sakay aur yeh bhi maloom kar sakay keh jis deen kay sath woh wabasta huaye hain us ki taleemaat kya hain. Jab usay hijrat ki wajah aur Islam ki taleemaat say aagah kiya gaya to us nay Islam qabool kar liya aur Quraish kay wafad kay tamam tahaaif wapis wapis kartay huaye unhein darbar say nikal diya. (Musnad-e-Ahmad: (1/201-203))

Amar Bin Aas ko maloom huwa keh us ka bhai Hishaam musalman ho gaya hai aur us nay Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم ki ittiba kar li hai to us nay dil mein yeh bat bitha li keh woh anqareeb bhot sakhat azab mein mubtila ho jaye ga. Us nay apni biwi Reeta aur betay ko sakhti say mana kar diya keh Deen-e-Jadeed kay perookar jo kuch kehtay hain us ko sun’na bhi nahin.

Reeta nay poocha: Mein heeran hoon keh yeh Abdullab Bin Abdul Muttalib ka farzand ilm, Hikmat aur danaai ki yeh batein kahan say laya hai? Reeta kay betay nay bataya: Ammi jan! Log kehtay hain keh aasman say us kay pas aik farishta utarta hai jis ka nam Jibreel hai, Wahi yeh sab kuch usay batata hai jisay aap Ilm-o-Hikmat aur danaai ki batein kehti hain. Amar Bin Aas nay ghazabnak ho kar kaha: Yeh sab jhoot ka palanda hai, Kya bhala Allah insan say bat karta hai?

Aas nay apnay baap say kaha keh woh kehtay hain keh Allah T’aala nay Moosa عليه السلام say batein kein.

Amar Bin Aas nay apnay betay say kaha: Jo kuch yeh log kehtay hain! In ko sach na man’na aur na hi tum un mein say kisi kay pas bethna. Aas Bin Amar nay kaha keh meray chacha Hishaam رضى الله عنه kehtay hain keh jis nay aik bar Imaan ka maza chakh liya phir woh kabhi shirk ki taraf nahin lot’ta, Agarcheh log us ki gardan par talwar kiun na rakh dein. Us kay baap nay usay dant pilaai aur usay dobara kaha keh dekho! Un mein say kisi kay sath baat bhi na karna.

Aik din Aas Bin Amar apnay maan baap kay pas aaya, Woh teez dodnay ki wajah say hanp raha tha. Donon nay poocha aakhir kya huwa? Kon sa hadisa roo-numa ho gaya? Kis kay kharman ko aag lag gai? Us nay kaha: Mein yeh khabar sun kar aaya hoon keh Umar Bin Khattab رضى الله عنه musalman ho gaya hai.

Phir Amar Bin Aas badi teezi say ghar say nikla keh is khabar ki tasdeeq kar sakay, Jab woh ghar wapis aaya to Shiddat-e-Gham say us ka munh latka huwa tha. Us ki biwi Reeta nay poocha: Sartaj kya hua? Ghamgeen dikhai day rahay ho, Kya yeh bat darusat hai jo aap kay betay nay bataai hai? Amar Bin Aas nay kaha: Han! Beta sahih kehta hai.

Jang-e-Uhad kay moqa par mushrikeen nay yeh fesla kiya keh woh apni biwiyon ko bhi sath lay kar jayein, Taa’keh Musalmanon kay sath ladnay kay liye yeh un kay hosalay badhayein. Reeta Bint-e-Munabbah apnay khawand Amar Bin Aas kay sath, Hind Bint-e-Utbah apnay khawand Abu Sufyan kay sath aur Umm-e-Hakeem Bint-e-Haris apnay khawand Ikarma Bin Abi Jahal kay sath rawana huien.

Quraish ko jang mein faaida pohancha, Kiun’keh Muslim teer-andazon nay apnay Qaaid ki hukum’adooli kartay huaye darray ko khali chod diya tha, Jis say musalmanon ko bhari nuqsan uthana pada. (Seerat Ibn-e-Hishaam (Safha: 377-379) Sahih Bukhari, Kitab-ul-Maghazi, باب: غزوة احد)

Amar Bin Aas ka beta Aas aur Umar Bin Khattab رضى الله عنه ka beta Aas donon Madina Munawwarah pohanch gaye.

Donon nay Nabi Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم kay hath par bait kar kay Islam qabool karnay ki s’aadat hasil kar li. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay un donon say un kay nam poochay to donon nay apna nam Aas bataya, Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay farmaya: “Aaj say tum donon ka nam Abdullah hai.”

 

(Al-Isabah (4/192) Tareekh-e-Damishaq Li-Abi Zur’aa (Safha: 93))

 

Aik din Amar Bin Aas baday afsurda apni biwi Reeta kay pas aaye to us nay poocha sartaj! Kheriyat to hai, Aaj baday ghamzada dikhai day rahay ho?

Us nay bataya keh tera beta Madinah Munawwarah ki taraf bhag gaya hai aur wahan pohanch kar Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ka daman-geer ho gaya hai. Biwi nay poocha: Sartaj! Aap ka kya khayal hai? Amar Bin Aas nay kaha keh mera bhi khayal yeh hai keh ham bhi is deen ko qabool kar lein. Log joaq-dar-joaq Deen-e-Islam qabool kar rahay hain. Thoday hi arsay kay bad Amar Bin Aas nay tayari kar li aur Madinah Munawwarah ki taraf Rakhat-e-Safar badh liya. Rastay mein usay Khalid Bin Waleed aur Usman Bin Talha Madinah jatay huaye milay, Phir teenon mil kar Madinah ki taraf Aazim-e-Safar huaye. Teenon aik sath Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ki khidmat mein hazir huaye aur Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم kay hath par bait kartay huaye Islam qabool karnay ki s’aadat hasil ki.

 

(Al-Isteeaab (1/367). Usd-ul-Ghabah (1/312))

 

Fatah-e-Makkah kay din Reeta Bint-e-Munabbah un khawateen kay sath Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ki khidmat mein hazir huien, Jinhon nay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ki bait kar kay Islam qabool kiya tha. Jab Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay Amar Bin Aas رضى الله عنه kay kunbay ko dekha to badi garamjoshi say khush-aamdeed kaha.

Talha Bin Ubaidullah رضى الله عنه say marwi hai keh mein Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay hawalay say siraf wahi kuch bayan karta hoon jo mein nay Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم say suna ho, Mein nay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم say yeh suna hai kay Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم farma rahay hain:

 

“ان عمر بن العاص من صالحى رجال قريش”

 

“Amar Bin Aas Quraish kay naik bandon mein say hain.”

 

(Sunan Tirmizi, Kitab-ul-Manaqib, باب: مناقب عمرو بن العاص رضى الله عنه: 3845, Musnad-e-Ahmad: (1/161) Mujam Kabeer TabraniL  (208).)

 

Rawi kehta hai keh Abdul Jabbar Bin Ward nay Ibn-e-Mulaika say aur us nay Talha Bin Ubaidullah رضى الله عنه say riwayat kiya keh Nabi Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم nay farmaya:

 

“نعم أهل البيت عبدالله، وأبو عبدالله وٱم عبدالله”

 

“Abdullah, Abu Abdulla aur Umm-e-Abdullah behtareen Ahal-e-Khana hain.”

 

Abdullah say murad Aas Bin Amar, Abu Abdullah say murad Amar Bin Aas aur Umm-e-Abdullah say murad Sayyidah Reeta Bint-e-Munabbah رضى الله عنها hain.

 

(Musnad-e-Ahmad: (1/161), Musnad-e-Abi Yaala (641), واسنادہ ضعیف ولھذا ضعیف لانقطاعہ)

 

Sayyidah Reeta Bint-e-Munabbah رضى الله عنها apnay betay say deeni umoor kay baray mein bhot zayada sawal kiya karti thein, Taa’keh woh in deeni umoor ki taleem hasil kar sakay.

Zindagi bhar un ka yahi mamool raha aur phir Daai-e-Ajal ko Labbaik kehti hui Allah ko peyari ho gayein.

Allah سبحانه و تعالى , Sayyidah Reeta, Un kay khawand Sayyiduna Amar Bin Aas رضى الله عنها aur un donon kay betay Abdullah رضى الله عنه par Apni rahmat ki barkha barsaaye aur unhein Apni raza say nawazay. Aameen Ya Rabbul-Aalameen!

 

Reference:

 Book: Hayat-e-Sahaabiyaat kay Darakhshah pahelo.

Taleef: Mahmood T’ama Halbi

Mutarjim: Abu Ziya Mehmood Ahmad Ghaznofar Hafizahullah.