Sayyidah Rubab Bint-e-Noman رضى الله عنها

 

Khandani Pas-e-Manzar:

 

Nam Rubab, Walid ka nam Noman Bin Imra-ul-Qais hai. In ki shadi Zurarah Bin Amar Bin Adi kay sath hui, Us say Muaz Bin Zurarah peda huaye. Jab Zurarah Bin Amar wafat pa gaya to un ki shadi Maroor bin Sakhar kay sath hui, Jis say Bara Bin Maroor nay janam liya, Jis nay tehatar (73) askhaas kay sath Bait-e-Uqba Saniya mein hissa liya aur un kay sath Ansaar ki do khawateen bhi thein, Aik Umm-e-Ammara Nusaiba Bint-e-Ka’ab Ansariya aur doosari Umm-e-Manee Asma Bint-e-Amar Bin Adi. Yeh Rubab kay khawand ki hamsheera thein. Ansaari Bait-e-Uqba Saniya kay liye gaye, Ka’ab Bin Malik bayan kartay hain keh ham us rat apni qoam kay sath apnay khemon mein soye. Jab tihaai raat beet gai to ham apnay khemon say dabay paon khiskay, Ham chup kar nihayat razdari kay sath chaltay huaye aik pahadi ki ghati mein ikatthay ho gaye. Ham taqriban sattar (70) marad thay aur hamaray sath 2 auratein thein. Aik Nusaiba Bint-e-Ka’ab thein jo Umm-e-Ammara ki kuniyat say mash’hoor thein, Yeh khatoon Banu Najjar qabeelay ki shakh Banu Hazin mein say thein aur doosari Asma Bint-e-Amar Bin Adi Bin Sabit Banu Salma qabeelay say thein aur yeh Umm-e-Manee ki kuniyat say Mash’hoor-o-Maroof thein. Rawi bayan karta hai keh Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay guftagoo ki ibtida Quraan Majeed ki tilawat say ki aur Islam qabool karnay ki targheeb di aur farmaya:

 

“ٱبايعکم على ان تمنعونى مما تمنعون منه نساءکم و أبناءکم”

 

“Mein tum say is sharat par bait loon ga keh tumhein mera difa is tarah karna hoga jis tarah tum apni auraton aur bachon ka difa kartay ho.”

 

Rawi kehta hai keh Bara Bin Maroor رضى الله عنه nay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ka hath pakad kar farmaya: Han! Mujhay qasam hai Us Zaat ki Jis nay aap ko haq day kar bheja hai, Ham Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ka difa bilkul usi tarah karein gay jis tarah apni auraton ka kartay hain. Aye Allah kay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم! Ham jangjoo log hain, Ham aslha bardar qoam hain. Ham jang aur aslahay kay nasal-dar-nasal waris chalay aa rahay hain. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay farmaya: Tum apnay barah (12) numainday muqarrar kar lo jo tumhari qoam ki numaindgi karein gay, To unhon nay barah (12) numainday nam’zad kiye, No (9) numainday Khazraj qabeelay say aur teen (3) numainday Aus qabeelay say thay. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay un barah (12) numaindon say mukhatib ho kar farmaya: “Tum apni qoam kay zimmadar ho jis tarah Hawari Isa عليه السلام kay zimmadar thay aur mein apni qoam ka zimmadar hoon.” Sab nay ba’yak zuban ho kar kaha: Theek hai aye Allah kay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم! Hamein manzoor hai. Rawi kehta hai keh sab say pehlay Bara Bin Maroor رضى الله عنه nay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay hath par bait ki aur phir baqi logon nay Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم kay hath par bait karnay ki s’aadat hasil ki. (Musnad-e-Ahmad (20/460-462) Seerat Ibn-e-Hishaam (Safha: /201-202))

 

Sayyidah Rubab رضى الله عنها kay donon betay Muaz Bin Zurarah رضى الله عنه aur Bara Bin Maroor رضى الله عنه Kibaair Sahabah Karaam رضى الله عنهم mein say huaye aur Bara Bin Maroor رضى الله عنه ko to Naqeeb honay ka aezaz bhi hasil huwa. Sayyidah Rubab رضى الله عنها kay betay nay Tahweel-e-Ka’aba say pehlay yeh raaye di keh namaz Masjid-e-Aqsa ki taraf munh kar kay padhnay ki bajaye Ka’aba ki taraf munh kar kay padhi jaaye lekin Sahaba Karaam رضى الله عنهم nay is raaye ka inkar kiya khas tor par Ka’ab Bin Malik رضى الله عنه jo Ansaar kay Mash’hoor-o-Maroof shaair bhi thay, Is raaye ko thukranay walon mein Sar-e-Fehrist thay.

Yad rahay keh Sayyiduna Ka’ab Bin Malik رضى الله عنه un ashkhaas mein say thay jinhon nay Bait-e-Uqba mein hissa liya aur Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay Dasat-e-Mubarak par bait ki. Farmatay hain keh ham apni qoam kay sath haj ki gharaz say rawana huaye. Hamari qoam kay sab afraad us waqat mushrik thay. Ham nay namaz padhi aur kuch masaail seekhay, Hamaray sath Bara Bin Maroor رضى الله عنه bhi thay, Woh hamara sardar tha aur ham mein sab say zayada umar raseeda bhi tha. Jab ham safar kay liye tayar ho kar Madinah Munawwarah say rawana huaye to Bara nay kaha: Sathiyo! Allah ki qasam! Meri aik raaye hai, Maloom nahin tum us say ittifaq kartay ho ya nahin, Ham nay kaha: Kya raaye hai? Us nay kaha: Meri raaye yeh hai keh Ka’aba ki taraf mein peeth na karoon balkeh us ki taraf munh kar kay namaz padhoon.

Ham nay kaha: Ham tak to yeh khabar pohanchi hai keh hamaray Nabi صلى الله عليه وسلم Sham ki taraf yani Masjid-e-Aqsa ki janib rukh kar kay namaz padhatay thay, Ham is ki mukhalifat nahin kar saktay, Bara Bin Maroor nay kaha keh mein to Ka’aba ki taraf munh kar kay namaz padhoon ga. Ham nay us say kaha keh ham is tarah nahin karein gay. Jab namaz ka waqat aaya to ham nay Sham ki taraf rukh kar kay namaz padhi aur Bara Bin Maroor رضى الله عنه nay Ka’aba ki taraf rukh kar kay namaz ada ki. Phir ham Makkah Muazzamah aa gaye to meray bhai nay kaha: Ham nay Bara Bin Maroor رضى الله عنه ko aisa karnay par bura bhala kaha, Lekin us nay apnay moaqaf ko chodnay say inkar kar diya.

Jab ham Makkah Muazzamah aaye to us nay kaha: Aye meray bhatijhay! Mein Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay pas ja raha hoon, Aap say poochta hoon keh mein nay Doran-e-Safar jo Ka’aba ki taraf munh kar kay namaz padhi kya mera woh kam theek hai? Kiunkeh meray dil mein is baray mein kuch khatka sa mehsoos ho raha hai, Kiunkeh tum sab nay meri is silsilay mein mukhalifat ki hai.

Kehtay hain: Ham Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم say daryafat karnay kay liye chal paday lekin ham Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ko pehchantay nahin thay. Kiunkeh ham nay is say pehlay Aap ko dekha nahin tha. Makkah kay bashindon mein say aik shakhas ham ko mila, Ham nay us say Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay baray mein poocha to us nay kaha keh kya tum unhein pehchantay ho? Ham nay kaha: Nahin! Us nay kaha: Kya tum Abbas Bin Abdul Muttalib ko pehchantay ho? Ham nay kaha: Han! Ham Abbas Bin Abdul Muttalib ko pehchantay hain, Kiun’keh woh hamaray pas taajir ki hesiyat say gahay gahay aatay rehtay thay. Us makki shakhas nay hamein bataya keh jab tum Masjid-e-Haraam mein dakhil ho gay to jo shakhas Abbas Bin Abdul Muttalib kay sath baithtay hain wahi Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم hain.

Bara Bin Maroor رضى الله عنه kehtay hain keh jab ham Masjid-e-Haraam mein dakhil huaye to ham nay dekha keh Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم Abbas Bin Abdul Muttalib رضى الله عنه kay pas baithay huaye hain. Ham nay salam kiya aur un kay pas baith gaye. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay Sayyiduna Abbas Bin Abdul Muttalib رضى الله عنه say farmaya: aye Abul Fazal! Kya aap in donon ko jantay hain? us nay kaha: Han! Yeh to apni qoam ka sardar Bara Bin Maroor hai aur yeh Ka’ab Bin Malik hai. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay farmaya: Woh Ka’ab Bin Malik jo shaair hai? Sayyiduna Abbas Bin Abdul Muttalib nay kaha: Han! Ka’ab Bin Malik رضى الله عنه kehtay hain keh Allah ki qasam! Mujhay yeh bat yad rahi aur kabhi is bat ko na bhula paya keh Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay mujhay shaair honay kay hawalay say yad farmaya.

Bara Bin Maroor رضى الله عنه nay kaha: Aye Allah kay Rasool صلى الله عليه وسلم! Mein apnay is safar par rawana huwa, Allah T’aala nay mujhay Islam ki taraf rahnumaai kar di, Meray khayal mein yeh baat aai keh mein ka’aba ki taraf peeth na karoon, Lihaza mein nay us ki taraf rukh kar kay namaz padhi to meray sathiyon nay meri mukhalifat ki jis say meray dil mein Shak-o-Shubha peda ho gaya, Aye Allah kay Rasool صلى الله عليه وسلم! Aap batayein keh kya mera moaqaf darusat hai. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay farmaya: Abhi tum pehlay qiblay hi ki taraf rukh kar kay namaz ada karo. To Bara Bin Maroor Masjid-e-Aqsa ki taraf munh kar kay namaz padhnay lagay.

 

(Musnad-e-Ahmad (3/460-462) Seerat Ibn-e-Hishaam (Safha: 201-202))

 

Bara Bin Maroor رضى الله عنه nay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay farman par amal-pera hotay huaye apnay moaqaf ko badal liya aur Deen-e-Islam kay ahkaam par amal-pera honay mein masroof ho gaye. Ansaar apnay numainday kay sath Madinah Munawwarah wapis aa gaye aur Deen-e-Islam ki Nashar-o-Isha’at mein masroof ho gaye. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay hijrat kar kay Madina Munawwarah pohanchnay say aik maah pehlay Sayyiduna Bara Bin Maroor رضى الله عنه Daai-e-Ajal ko Labbaik kehtay huaye wafat pa gaye.

Wafat panay say pehlay apni kisi cheez kay baray mein us nay wasiyat ki keh yeh Rasoolullah صلى صلى لله عليه وسلم kay sapurad kar dena. Jab Nabi Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم hijrat kar kay Madinah Munawwarah pohanchay to Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ko Bara Bin Maroor رضى الله عنه ki wafat kay baray mein bataya gaya. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay un kay haq mein rahmat ki dua ki. Un ki qabar par gaye, Namaz-e-Janaza padhi aur jo cheez wasiyat ki buniyad par Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay sapurad ki gai thi woh Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم nay un ki aulad ko day di. (Mustadrak Hakim (1/353) Sunan Kubra Baihaqi (3/384) Muajam Kabeer Tabrani (1185) Tabqaat Ibn-e-Saad (3/619).) Allah سبحانه وتعالى Sayyiduna Bara Bin Maroor رضى الله عنه ki walida Sayyiduna Rubab Bint-e-Noman رضى الله عنها aur Muaz bin Zurarah ki walidah par apni rahmat ki barkha barsaaye aur tamam Ansaar par Apni rahmat ka saya daraz karay aur unhein Jannat-ul-Firdous mein jagah ata farmaaye. Aameen!

 

Reference:

 Book: Hayat-e-Sahaabiyaat kay Darakhshah pahelo.

Taleef: Mahmood T’ama Halbi

Mutarjim: Abu Ziya Mehmood Ahmad Ghaznofar Hafizahullah.