Sayyidah Jameel Bint-e-Yasaar رضى الله عنها

 

Khandani Pas-e-Manzar:

 

Nam Jameel, Walid ka nam Yasaar Muzani tha. Un kay bhai Jaleel-ul-Qadar Sahabi Sayyiduna Maaqal Bin Yasaar رضى الله عنه Sulah-e-Hudaybiya mein hazir thay. Jis darakhat kay saaye kay talay beth kar Rasooullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay bait li, Yeh Jaleel-ul-Qadar Sahabi us darakhat ki tehniyan oopar uthaaye huay thay, Taa’keh Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay chehra sab ko dikhai day.

 Sayyiduna Maaqal Bin Yasaar رضى الله عنه ka bayan hai keh Hudaibiya kay maqam par Nabi Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم aik saaye kay nichay tashreef farma logon say bait lay rahay thay aur mein Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم kay sar kay oopar lataknay wali tehni ko ooper uthaaye huaye tha. Ham us din choda so (1400) afraad thay. Ham nay Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم kay Dasat-e-Mubarak par bait kartay huaye yeh muahida kiya keh ham Raah-e-Farar ikhtiyar nahin karein gay.

 

(Sahih Muslim, Kitab-ul-Imaarah, باب: استحباب مبايعة الامام الجيش: 1858)

 

Sayyiduna Umar Bin Khattab رضى الله عنه nay Sayyiduna Maaqal Bin Yasaar رضى الله عنه ko Basrah ka Gowarnar nam’zad kar diya tha. Unhon nay wahan aik nehar khudwaai jo un kay nam say mansoob thi jisay Nehar-e-Maaqal kaha jata tha, Us kay kinaray par un ka ghar bhi tha.

 

(Tabqaat Ibn-e-Saad (7/14) Al-Istiaab (1/451) Usd-ul-Ghabah (3/35) Al-Isabah (6/185).)

 

Abu Nuaeem nay Abul-Ashbab say bayan kiya keh unhon nay Hasan Basri kay hawalay say baataya keh Ubaidullah Bin Ziyad nay Sayyiduna Maaqal Bin Yasaar رضى الله عنه ki us bimari mein timardari ki jis mein unhon nay wafat paai. Sayyiduna Maaqal Bin Yasaar رضى الله عنه nay Ibn-e-Ziyad رضى الله عنه say kaha keh mein tujhay aik Hadees bayan karta hoon jo keh mein nay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم say suni. Agar meri yeh haalat na hoti jo tum dekh rahay ho to mein tujhay yeh Hadees na baatata. Mein nay Nabi صلى الله عليه وسلم say suna, Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم farmatay hain:

 

“ما من عبد استرعاه الله رعيته فلم يحطها بنصيحة الا لم يجد رائحة الجنة”

 

 

“Allah T’aala Apnay jis banday ko hukumarani ata kar deta hai aur woh riaaya kay sath khair-khawahi say paish nahin aata to woh hukumaran Jannat ki khushboo bhi nahin pa sakay ga.”

 

(Sahih Bukhari, Kitab-ul-Ahkaam, باب: من استرعى رعية فلم ينصح : 7150, Sahih Muslim, Kitab-ul-Imaan, باب: استحقاق الوالى الغاش لرعية النار: 142)

 

Yeh kesi umda nasihat hai, Jisay woh shakhas bayan kar raha hai jis ki moat ka waqat qareeb hai, Ho sakta hai keh jo shakhas is nasihat ko sunay aur marnay say pehlay woh taubah kar lay. Nasihatein aur ibratein to bhot hain lekin in say sabaq hasil karnay walay log bhot kam hain.

 

Abul Baddah say shadi:

 

Sayyiduna Maaqal Bin Yasaar رضى الله عنه kay pas un ka chacha ka beta Abul Baddah aaya aur us nay Maaqal Bin Yasaar say us ki hamsheera Jameel رضى الله عنها ka rishta manga. Jab unhon nay rishta denay mein muwafiqat ka izhar kiya to dulhan ko Sayyidah Ayesha رضى الله عنها kay pas bheja gaya, Taa’keh un say dulhan ka libas ariyatan lay kar zaibtan karay. Madinah Munawarrah mein jo dulhan bhi aroosi joday ka mutaliba karti Aap رضى الله عنها usay ata kar detein.

 

(Sahih Bukhari, Kitab-ul-Hibah, باب: الاستعارة للعروس عنه البناء: 2628) Is tarah un ki rukhsati ka amal tamam huwa. (Al-Istiaab (2/81) Al-Isabah (1/119) مختصرا)

 

Sayyiduna Maaqal Bin Yasaar رضى الله عنه jab bhi apni hamsheera kay pas aatay to woh aap say yahi poochatein keh aaj Quraan ka kon sa aur kya hukum nazil huwa hai. Jo hukum bhi nazil huwa hota aap unhein baatatay, Agar Quraan ka koi naya hukum nazil na huwa hota to woh Hadees suna detay jo Nabi Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم say suni hoti. Sahaba Karaam رضى الله عنهم Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم say duniya aur us kay Saaz-o-Saman kay baray mein sawal nahin kiya kartay thay, Woh hamesha aakhirat kay baray mein sawal kiya kartay thay. Woh aakhirat hi mein dilchaspi rakhta thay aur usi kay liye tayari kartay thay.

 

Irshad-e-Bari T’aala hai:

 

“وَكَمۡ اَهۡلَكۡنَا مِنَ الۡقُرُوۡنِ مِنۡۢ بَعۡدِ نُوۡحٍ‌ؕ وَكَفٰى بِرَبِّكَ بِذُنُوۡبِ عِبَادِهٖ خَبِيۡرًۢا بَصِيۡرًا‏ ۞ مَنۡ كَانَ يُرِيۡدُ الۡعَاجِلَةَ عَجَّلۡنَا لَهٗ فِيۡهَا مَا نَشَآءُ لِمَنۡ نُّرِيۡدُ ثُمَّ جَعَلۡنَا لَهٗ جَهَنَّمَ‌ۚ يَصۡلٰٮهَا مَذۡمُوۡمًا مَّدۡحُوۡرًا ۞ وَمَنۡ اَرَادَ الۡاٰخِرَةَ وَسَعٰى لَهَا سَعۡيَهَا وَهُوَ مُؤۡمِنٌ فَاُولٰۤئِكَ كَانَ سَعۡيُهُمۡ مَّشۡكُوۡرًا ۞ كُلًّا نُّمِدُّ هٰٓؤُلَاۤءِ وَهٰٓؤُلَاۤءِ مِنۡ عَطَآءِ رَبِّكَ‌ ؕ وَمَا كَانَ عَطَآءُ رَبِّكَ مَحۡظُوۡرًا ۞”

 

“Dekh lo keh Nooh kay bad Ham nay kitni hi naslein halak kein, Tera Rab Apnay bandon kay gunahon say ba’khabar aur sab kuch dekh raha hai. Jo koi is duniya mein jaldi hasil honay walay faaidon ka khawahish’mand ho usay ham yahein day detay hain jo kuch bhi ham dena chahein, Phir us ki qismat mein ham Jahannam likh detay hain jisay woh taapay ga, Malamat zada aur rahmat say mahroom ho kar. Aur jo aakhirat ka khawahish’mand ho aur us kay liye koshish karay, Jaisay kay us kay liye koshish karni chahiye to aisay har shakhas ki koshish ki qadar ki jaaye gi. In ko bhi aur un ko bhi donon fareeqon ko ham duniya mein Saman-e-Zeesat diye ja rahay hain, Yeh teray Rab ka atiya hai aur teray Rab ki ata ko roknay wala koi nahin hai.”

 

(Bani Israil: 17/17-20)

 

Abul Babdah رضى الله عنه mali tor par kamzor thay. Biwi nay apnay khawand ki Ghurabaat-o-Iflas kay bawjood Sabar-o-Tahamul kay sath zindagi basar ki. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay un donon kay haq mein Khair-o-Barkat ki dua ki. Sayyidah Jameel رضى الله عنها, Un ka khawand Abul Baddah aur bhai Maaqal Bin Ysaar رضى الله عنهم aksar oqaat Quraan-o-Hadees kay masaail mein behas kiya kartay thay. Un ki yeh Behas-o-Tamhees is qadar mufeed aur dilkash hoti keh kya kehnay!

 

Un kay sabab quraani aayaat ka nuzool:

 

Sayyidah Jameel رضى الله عنها, Un kay khawand aur un kay bhai kay baray mein Quraani aayaat nazil huien. Muhammad Bin Musanna nay Abdul Aala aur unhon nay Saeed aur Qatada kay hawalay say baataya, Woh kehtay hain keh hamein Hasan nay baataya keh Sayyiduna Maaqal Bin Yasaar رضى الله عنها ki hamsheera ko un kay khawand nay talaq day di. Woh usay chod kar alag ho gaya. Jab us ki iddat poori ho gai to us nay dobara us kay sath nikah karna chaha lekin Maaqal Bin Yasaar رضى الله عنه ko Gherat-o-Ghussa aaya aur unhon nay kaha chodiye is kahani ko rehnay dijiye. Unhon nay phir nikah karnay ki koshish ki lekin phir Maaqal رضى الله عنه un donon ki rah mein haail ho gaye to Allah T’aala nay yeh aayaat nazil kein. Irshad-e-Bari T’aala hai:

 

“وَاِذَا طَلَّقۡتُمُ النِّسَآءَ فَبَلَغۡنَ اَجَلَهُنَّ فَلَا تَعۡضُلُوۡهُنَّ اَنۡ يَّنۡكِحۡنَ اَزۡوَاجَهُنَّ اِذَا تَرَاضَوۡا بَيۡنَهُمۡ بِالۡمَعۡرُوۡفِ‌ؕ ذٰ لِكَ يُوۡعَظُ بِهٖ مَنۡ كَانَ مِنۡكُمۡ يُؤۡمِنُ بِاللّٰهِ وَالۡيَوۡمِ الۡاٰخِرِؕ ذٰ لِكُمۡ اَزۡکٰى لَـكُمۡ وَاَطۡهَرُؕ‌ وَاللّٰهُ يَعۡلَمُ وَاَنۡـتُمۡ لَا تَعۡلَمُوۡنَ ۞”

 

“Jab tum apni auraton ko talaq day do aur woh apni iddat poori kar lein to phir us mein maane na ho keh woh apnay Zeer-e-Tajweez shohron say nikah kar lein, Jab’keh woh maroof tareeqay say baham nikah karnay par razi hon, Tumhein nasihat ki jati hai keh aisi harkat hargiz na karna, Agar tum Allah aur Roz-e-Aakhirat par imaan lanay walay ho, Tumharay liye shaista aur pakiza tareeqa yahi hai, Allah janta hai tum nahin jantay.”

 

(Al-Baqarah: 2/232)

 

Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay Sayyiduna Maaqal Bin Yasaar رضى الله عنه ko apnay pas bulaya aur unhein Quraani aayaat padh kar sunai to unhon nay apnay Gherat-o-Ghussay ko khatam kar diya aur Allah T’aala kay hukum kay aagay Sar-e-Tasleem kham kar diya aur apni qasam ka kaffara kar diya.

 

(Sahih Bukhari, Kitab-ul-Talaq, باب: ( وبعولتهن احق بردهن ): 15331, Al-Isabah (7/555) Usd-ul-Ghabah: (3/325).)

 

Allah T’aala Abul Baddah, Jameel aur Maaqal Bin Yasaar رضى الله عنهم par apni rahmat ki barkha barsaaye aur unhein Apni raza say nawazay. Yeh Momin log thay aur Deen-e-Islam kay sath wabasta thay. Aameen Ya Rabb-ul-Aalameen!

 

Reference:

 Book: Hayat-e-Sahaabiyaat kay Darakhshah pahelo.

Taleef: Mahmood T’ama Halbi

Mutarjim: Abu Ziya Mehmood Ahmad Ghaznofar Hafizahullah.