Sayyidah Reeta Bint-e-Abdullah رضى الله عنها

 

Khandani Pas-e-Manzar:

 

Nam Reeta, Walid ka nam Abdullah Bin Muawiya رضى الله عنه hai. Aap ki shadi Jaleel-ul-Qadar Sahabi Sayyiduna Abdullah Bin Masood رضى الله عنه kay sath hui. Sayyiduna Abdullah Bin Masood رضى الله عنه mali tor par kamzor aur tangdasat thay aur aik sar’karda Quraishi sardar ki bakriyan charaya kartay thay. Us sardar ka nam Uqba Bin Abi Mueet tha. Bakriyan chara kay jo mamooli si ujrat milti thi woh ghar kay akhrajaat kay liye kafi na thi, Us say ghar ki zarooriyaat poori nahin hoti thein. Lekin un ki biwi un kay sath nihayat raham dili, Naram khooi aur khanda peshani say pesh aati thein. Woh apnay hath say mehnat kartein, Jo kuch kamatien woh apnay khawand aur betay par kharach kartein.

Allama Ibn-e-Kaseer apni kitab “Usd-ul-Ghabah” (Usd-ul-Ghabah (3/355) Al-Isabah (3/492).) mein raqamtaraz hain keh Sayyiduna Abdullah Bin Masood رضى الله عنه ki biwi Reeta رضى الله عنها dastkari ki mahir thein aur jo kuch apni dastkari say kamatien, Apnay khawand aur betay par kharach kar diya karti thein.

Farmati hain keh aik din mein nay apnay khawand Abdullah Bin Masood رضى الله عنه say kaha keh tum aur tumharay betay nay mujhay Sadqa-o-Kherat karnay say mashghool kar rakha hai, Tumharay hotay huaye meray liye mumkin hi nahin keh mein Allah ki rah mein kuch sadqa karoon. Abdullah Bin Masood رضى الله عنه nay farmaya keh mein yeh pasand nahin karta keh agar tujhay koi Ajar-o-Sawab nahin milta to tum hamaray oopar kharach karo. Farmati hain keh mein nay Nabi Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم say araz kiya: Aye Allah kay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم! Mein aik kareegar aurat hoon, Mein jo kuch banati hoon woh bech deti hoon. Meray betay aur meray khawand kay akhrajaat ka is kay ilawa koi zaria nahin, In par kharach karnay ki wajah say mein Allah ki rah mein kharach nahin kar sakti, Meray liye mumkin nahin hota keh mein koi cheez sadqa kar sakoon. Kya mein jo apnay betay aur khawand par kharach karti hoon, Mujhay us ka Ajar-o-Sawab milay ga? Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay Sayyidah Reeta رضى الله عنه say farmaya: “Tum in par kharach karo, Jo kuch tum in par kharach karo gi tumhein un ka Ajar-o-Sawab milay ga.”

 

(Musnad-e-Ahmad (3/503))

 

Alama Ibn-e-Aseer nay “Usd-ul-Ghabah” mein in alfaaz ka izafa kiya hai, Woh likhtay hain:

 

“نعم لك اجرا ما انفقت عليهم فانفقى عليهم”

 

“Teray liye acha ajar hoga jab tak tu un par kharach karay gi, Tu un par kharach karti reh.”

 

(Usd-ul-Ghabah (3/356) Sahih Ibn-e-Hibbaan (4247) Sunan Kubra Baihaqi (4/178))

 

Aik doosari riwayat mein Abdullah Bin Masood رضى الله عنه ki biwi Sayyidah Reeta رضى الله عنها say marwi hai keh woh aik kareegar khatoon thein, Woh apni banai hui cheezen bechatien aur sadqa bhi kartein. Aik din unhon nay apnay khawand Abdullah Bin Masood رضى الله عنه say kaha: Aap nay aur aap kay betay nay mujhay mashghool kar rakha hai, Aap par kharach karnay ki wajah say meray pas kuch nahin bachta keh mein Allah ki rah mein sadqa kar sakoon, To Abdullah Bin Masood رضى الله عنه nay kaha keh agar ham par kharach karnay say tujhay koi Ajar-o-Sawab nahin milta to mein yeh pasand nahin karta keh tum ham par kharach karo. Un donon nay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم say masla poocha.

 Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم nay Sayyidah Reeta رضى الله عنها say farmaya: “Jab tak tu in par kharach karti rahay gi, Tujhay Ajar-o-Sawab milta rahay ga.”

 

(Musnad-e-Ahmad (3/503).)

 

Sachai ki khoogar sadqa denay wali khatoon:

 

Sayyidah Reeta رضى الله عنها nay apna daur is tarah basar kiya jis tarah basar karnay ka haq tha. Kunbay ki dekh bhal mein unhon nay apnay khawand ka hath baataya aur aulad par bhi poori tawajah di.

 Sayyidah Reeta رضى الله عنها ka khawand Abdullah Bin Masood رضى الله عنه Madinah Munawarrah hijrat kay bad Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ki ilmi majalis mein baqaidagi say shareek honay laga. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم apnay Sahaba رضى الله عنهم ko us ilm say aarasta kartay jo Allah T’aala nay unhein ata kar rakha tha, Unhein Apnay ilmi Fuyooz-o-Barkaat say nawaztay aur Apnay Nabwi Rushad-o-Hidayat say aarasta kartay. Ya phir Sayyiduna Abdullah Bin Masood رضى الله عنه Medan-e-Jihad ki taraf nikaltay. Allah kay dushmanon kay khilaf jihad kartay aur chahar Dang-e-Aalam mein Islam ka jhanda sar’buland kartay.

 Sayyidah Reeta رضى الله عنها ka dili irada tha keh woh Allah T’aala ki rah mein Sadqa-o-Khairat kar kay Allah T’aala say Ajar-o-Sawab hasil karay. Abdullah Bin Masood رضى الله عنه apnay oopar kharach karnay kay liye apni biwi ko majboor nahin kartay thay, Balkeh unhon nay wazeh andaz mein keh diya tha keh agar mujh par kharach karnay say tumhein Ajar-o-Sawab nahin milta to msin yeh pasand nahin karta keh tum mujh par kharach karo. Jab Nabi Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم nay Sayyidah Reeta رصى الله عنها ko baataya keh keh tum jo kuch bhi apnay Ahal-o-Ayaal par kharach karti ho us ka tujhay Ajar-o-Sawab milta hai. Is say un ka dil mutmaein ho gaya aur unhon nay koshish mein izafa kar diya aur mehnat dugni kar di. Woh bhala apnay Tareeq-e-Kar mein zayada mehaw kiun na hotein kiunkeh is mein un ka Rab aur Nabi صلى الله عليه وسلم ki khushnoodi thi. Unhon nay apnay khawand aur aulad kay liye khush’hali ko hasil kiya.

 Allah T’aala Sayyidah Reeta رضى الله عنها par Apni rahmat ki barkha barsaaye aur unhein Jannat-ul-Firdous mein maqam ata karay. Aameen Ya Rabb-ul-Aalameen!

 

Reference:

 Book: Hayat-e-Sahaabiyaat kay Darakhshah pahelo.

Taleef: Mahmood T’ama Halbi

Mutarjim: Abu Ziya Mehmood Ahmad Ghaznofar Hafizahullah.