67. Sayyidah Reeta Bint-e-Haris رضى الله عنها
Sayyidah Reeta Bint-e-Haris رضى الله عنها
Muhajir ki biwi Muhajira:
Nam Reeta, Walid ka nam Haris Bin Jabeela aur shuhar ka nam Haris Bin Khalid tha. Sayyidah Reeta رضى الله عنها aur un kay khawand sab say pehlay Daaira-e-Islam mein dakhil honay walon mein say thay. (Al-Istiaab (2/97) Al-Isabah (3/484) Tabqaat Ibn-e-Saad (8/255)) Jab Quraish ki eeza-rasani say tang aa kar apnay deen ki hifazat kay liye Muhajireen ka aik qafila Habsha ki taraf hijrat karnay kay liye harkat mein aaya to yeh donon miyan biwi bhi un kay sath thay.
(Tabqaat Ibn-e-Saad (8/255) Seerat Ibn-e-Hishaam (1/326) Al-Isabah (3/484))
Watan ki judai kis qadar takleef-dah aur apnay farzandon kay liye sakhat tareen aziyat ka ba’is hoti hai. Lekin yeh takleef us waqat do-chand ho jati hai jab watan kay bashindon ko watan chodnay par majboor kar diya jata hai, Phir bhi watan ko chodna deen ko chodnay say kahein aasan hota hai. Muhajireen Islam mein dakhil huaye aur unhon nay Deen ki mithas ko chakha. Jab Imaan un kay Rag-o-Reshay mein rach bas gaya to Quraish nay unhein Kufar-o-Shirak kay kadway kaseelay phal ki taraf lotana chaha, Ahal-e-Imaan bhala is peshkash ko kis tarha qabool karein. Sherini chod kar kadwi cheez ko khanay ko kon tayar hota hai. Musalmanon nay Islam ki naimat say sarfaraz honay kay bad buton ki ibadat say kinara’kashi ikhtiyar kar li aur watan chod kar pardees mein rehna aur Darad-o-Alam ki teesein sehna gawara kar liya. Woh Islam kay saaye talay rehtay huaye Islam kay pakay huaye meethay phal say shad-kam honay lagay.
Sayyidah Reeta رضى الله عنها aur un ka khawand Habsha mein s’aadat aur sakoon ki zindagi basar karnay lagay. Wahan reh kar Sayyidah Reeta رضى الله عنها nay Moosa, Zainab, Ibraheem aur Ayesha ko janam diya aur un kay dilon meim deen kay ibtidai usoolon ki tukham-rezi karnay lagay jis Islam ki naimat say donon miyan biwi aur deegar musalmanon ko Allah nay sarfaraz kiya tha.
Sayyidah Reeta رضى الله عنها apnay khawand kay sath intihai khush akhlaqi say pesh aati thein, Un ka khawand bhi un kay sath Husan-e-Akhlaq say pesh aata tha. Donon miyan biwi aapas mein intihai khaloos say peshh aatay thay. Un kay bahimi talluqaat ulfat, Mahabbaat aur hamdardi par mabni thay. Un kay bahimi talluqaat itnay khushgawar thay keh un ka ghar Musarrat-o-Shadmani ka gehwara ban gaya tha. Jab Muhajireen nay Makkah Muazzamah wapisi ka pukhta irada kar liya to Sayyidah Reeta رضى الله عنها nay ghar ka saman bandh liya, Thailay tayar kiye, Apnay khawand aur char (4) bachon kay hamarah Muhajireen kay qafilay kay sath chal padein.
Dusri hihrat kay waqat rastay mein un ki wafat:
Muhajireen nay Makkah Muazzamah mein thodasa aaram kiya phir Madinah Munawarrah ki rah li, Taa’keh Nabi Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم say ja milein aur Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم kay qurab ki naimat say mahroom rahay hain us naimat ko dobara hasil karein. Kiunkeh yeh Muhajireen Habsha mein Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ki judai ka sadma sehtay rahay.
Sayyidah Reeta رضى الله عنها ka khawand nahin janta tha keh taqdeer nay un kay liye kya chupa rakha hai. Allah T’aala ki mashiyat us kay bandon mein Jari-o-Sari hoti hai, Wahi hota hai jo Allah T’aala ko manzoor hota hai.
Allah T,aala Apnay bandon mein say jis ko chahta hai Apni zameen ka waris bana deta hai, Rastay mein Haris رضى الله عنه kay beton aur biwi ko sakhat peyas lagi. Unhein aik jagah pani dikhai diya to woh wahan pani kay pas farokash huaye huaye. Sayyidah Reeta aur un kay charon bachon nay pani piya lekin Haris رضى الله عنه ko pani ki talab nahin thi. Jab woh pani peenay kay bad safar par rawana huaye to jisam mein tod phod mehsoos karnay lagay, Phir un kay jismani quwa mein harkat baqi na rahi, Unhon nay jo pani piya tha woh zehreela tha jis nay un sab ko moat ki neend sula diya.
Sayyiduna Haris رضى الله عنه yeh darad-nak manzar dekh kar ghabra gaye lekin woh kuch na kar sakay. Yeh Allah ka fesla tha, Allah Moat-o-Hayat ka Malik hai. Hukum Usi ka chalta hai, Us kay bandon kay liye Us kay ahkamaat kay aagay sar Tasleem-e-Kham karnay kay ilawa koi chara nahin hota.
(Al-Istiaab (1/85) Tabqaat Ibn-e-Saad (4/128) Usd-ul-Ghabah (3/394))
Madinah Munawarrah mein Sayyiduna Haris رضى الله عنه nay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم say Ahadees riwiyat karnay ki s’aadat hasil ki. Nabi Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم nay un ki shadi Yazeed Bin Hashim ki beti say kar di, Allah T’aala nay us say unhein pakeeza aulad ata ki.
Allah T’aala Sayyidah Reeta رضى الله عنها par Apni rahmat ki barkhab barsaaye jis nay hijrat kay rastay mein apni aulad kay sath wafat paai. Yeh sab A’azam-ul-Muhajireen Sayyiduna Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم say mulaqat kay liye Madinah Munawarrah ja rahay thay. Un ko apnay Khaliq-o-Malik ki taraf say Ajar-o-Sawab ka wada hai Jo zara barabar bhi kisi ka ajar zaaia nahin karta. Muhajireen kay hawalay say Allah سبحانه و تعالى nay yeh irshad farmaya:
“وَمَنۡ يُّهَاجِرۡ فِىۡ سَبِيۡلِ اللّٰهِ يَجِدۡ فِى الۡاَرۡضِ مُرٰغَمًا كَثِيۡرًا وَّسَعَةً ؕ وَمَنۡ يَّخۡرُجۡ مِنۡۢ بَيۡتِهٖ مُهَاجِرًا اِلَى اللّٰهِ وَرَسُوۡلِهٖ ثُمَّ يُدۡرِكۡهُ الۡمَوۡتُ فَقَدۡ وَقَعَ اَجۡرُهٗ عَلَى اللّٰهِ ؕ وَكَانَ اللّٰهُ غَفُوۡرًا رَّحِيۡمًا ۞”
“Aur jo shakhas Allah ki rah mein hijrat karay woh zameen mein panah lenay kay liye bhot jagah aur gunjaish paaye ga, Aur jo shakhas Allah aur Us kay Rasool ki taraf hijrat karnay ki khatir apnay ghar say niklay phir usay moat aa jaaye to us ka ajar Allah kay zimmay wajib ho gaya aur Allah nihayat Bakhashanay wala bhot Raham karnay wala hai”
(Al-Nisa: 4/100)
Reference:
Book: Hayat-e-Sahaabiyaat kay Darakhshah pahelo.
Taleef: Mahmood T’ama Halbi
Mutarjim: Abu Ziya Mehmood Ahmad Ghaznofar Hafizahullah.