24. WALIDAIN KAY HUQOOQ [ The Rights of Parents]
Waalidain kay huqooq
1. Waalidain ka ehteraam karna.
(Surah Bani Israayeel: 23-24)
2. Waalidain ka hukum manna.
(Surah Luqman: 14-15)
3. Waalidain kay saath husn-e-sulook say pesh aana.
(Sunan Abu Dawood: 5143, Sahih)
4. Waalidain ki zarooriyaat-e-zindagi ka qayaal rakhna.
(Surah Bakharah: 215)
5. Waalidain ko gaali dene say parhez karna.
(Sahih Muslim: 313)
6. Waalidain kay liye maghfirat ki dua karna.
(Surah Bani Israayeel: 23-24)
Kuch misaalein aise kaamon ki jo waalidain ko takleef dene wale hain, isliye inse bachna waajib hai:
1. Unhein rulaana.
2. Unhein daraana.
3. Unkay dilon mein udasi bhar dena.
4. Unhein aankhein dikhaana.
5. Unki naafarmaani karna.
6. Unki baaton ko radd karna.
7. Apne zaati masaail ka bila wajah pareshaani ki gharz say izhaar karna.
8. Unke saath kanjoosi ka muamala karna.
9. Unpar kiye gaye apne ehsaanaat jataana.
10. Unki maut ki tamanna karna.
(Al-Birru wa as-Silah-Fazeelatul-Sheikh Saaleh Al-Fawzaan)
REFERENCE:
BOOK: “NIKAH SE MUTALIQ AHEM MALOOMAT”
BY: SHEIKH ARSHAD BASHEER UMARI MADANI
The Rights of Parents
1. To be respectful towards parents.
(Surah Bani Israel: 23-24)
2. To obey their commands.
(Surah Luqman: 14-15)
3. To behave in a good manner.
(Sunan Abu Dawood: 5143)
4. To fulfil their needs.
(Surah Baqarah: 215)
5. To refrain from harming them.
(Sahih Muslim: 313)
6. To seek forgiveness for them.
(Surah Bani Israel: 23-24)
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Examples of some acts of disobedience towards parents
1. We shouldn’t make them weep.
2. We shouldn’t make them terrified.
3. We shouldn’t distress them.
4. We shouldn’t stare them.
5. We shouldn’t disobey them.
6. We shouldn’t reject their statements.
7. We shouldn’t reveal our personal problems with the intention to make them to get worried.
8. We shouldn’t be stingy towards them.
9. We shouldn’t embarrass them by articulating our helps towards them.
10. We shouldn’t desire their death.
[Al Birr wa Silah of Shaykh Saalih al Fawzan]
REFERENCE:
BOOK: “CRUCIAL INFORMATION RELATED TO NIKAH”
BY: SHEIKH ARSHAD BASHEER UMARI MADANI