03. Hazrat Asama Bint-e-Abi Bakar (رضى الله عنهما )
Hazrat Asama Bint-e-Abi Bakar (رضى الله عنهما )
” Is aik kamarband ke badlay tujhe Jannat mein do ( 2 ) kamar band ‘ataa kiye jaayen ge.”
( Farmaan-e-Nabwi صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم )
Sayyid-ul-Mursaleen صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ki Khwahar-e-Nisbati Umm-ul-Momineen Sayyidah Aysha Sadiqa رضى الله عنها ki hamsheerah Siddiq-e-Akbar رضى الله عنه ki dukhtar naik akhtar Umm-ul-Khair Salmah Bint-e-Sakhar ki poti Umm-e-Fardaa رضى الله عنها Qareeba رضى الله عنها aur Umm-e-‘Aamir رضى الله عنه ki bhateeji, Yeh teeno ‘Azeem-ul-Martabat Sahabyaat hain aur teeno Hazrat Abu Quhafa ki betiyan aur Sayyiduna Siddiq-e-Akbar رضى الله عنه ki hamsheergaan hain. Hawaari Rasool-e-Aqdas صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم aur Lisaan-e-Risaalat se Jannat ki bashaarat paanay waalay Jaleel-ul–ul-Qadar Sahabi Hazrat Zubair bin ‘Awam رضى الله عنه ki Rafiqa-e-Hayaat, Jaleel-ul-qadar Sahabi Hazrat Abdullah bin Zubair رضى الله عنه ki waalida, Jaddah, Safar-e-Hijrat ki raaz daan aur Zaad-e-Safar tayyaar kar ke Lisan-e-Risaalat se Jannat ki bashaarat paanay waali khush naseeb Sahabia, Khud Sahabia, Bhai Sahabi, Dada Sahabi, Beta sahabi, Hamsheerah Umm-ul-Momineen, Har taraf se S’aadat bhari nisbaton ka yeh ‘Azeem-ul-Shaan Ai’zaz aisa hai jis mein Hazrat Asma Bint-e-Abi Bakar رضى الله عنها munfarid nazar aati hain. Aayiyae is ‘Azeem-ul-Martabat Khatoon-e-Jannat ka dilpazeer tazkara karte hue apne imaan ko taaza karen.
Hazrat Asma Bint-e-Abi Bakar رضى الله عنها hijrat se sataais ( 27 ) saal pehlay Makkah Mu’azzmah mein peda huyin. Us waqt Hazrat Siddiq-e-Akbar رضى الله عنه ki ‘umar sirf ikees ( 21 ) baras thi, Un ki waalida ka naam Qateela Bint-e-Uzza tha Zamana-e-Jaahliat mein Hazrat Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه ne is se shaadi ki jis se Asma aur Abdullah peda hue. Zuhoor-e-Islam se pehlay hi usay talaaq day di thi. Aik arsa tak Woh ghair muslim hi rahi lekin Fatah-e-Makkah ke ba’ad us ne Islaam qubool kar liya tha. Hazrat Asma رضى الله عنها apne Aba jaan ki wasaatat se Daaira-e-Islaam mein daakhil huien. Deen-o-Danish, Fahem-o-Baseerat, Jurrat-o-Shuja’at, Sidq-o-Safa aur Jood-o-Sakha mein Yaktaa-e-Rozgaar theen. Himmat-o-Jurrat aisi thi keh raat ki taareeki mein akeli Ghaar-e-Sour mein khana pohnchatin jab keh Sayyid-ul-Mursaleen صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم aur Hazrat Siddiq-e-Akbar رضى الله عنه wahan Safar-e-Hijrat ke douraan hifaazati iqdamaat ikhtiyaar karte hue ruke thay. Quresh-e-Makkah ne aap ko bohat talaash kiya, Pakad kar laane waalay ke liye bhaari in’aam ka ailaan kiya lekin kahin koi suraagh na mila. Talaash bisyaar ke ba’ad Abu Jahal phankaarta hua Hazrat Siddiq-e-Akbar رضى الله عنه ghar aaya. Darwazay par dastak di Hazrat Asama رضى الله عنها baahar tashreef laayein.
Poocha: Tumhaara waalid kahan hai ?
Kaha: Mujhe kya ma’loom?
Us ne Khubs-e-Baatin ka bhar poor muzaahara karte hue aik zor daar tamaacha mun par raseed kiya jis se un ke kaan ki aik baali neechay gir gaee. Lekin raaz ko chupaanay ke liye yeh Zulm-o-Sitam pooray Sabr-o-Tahammul aur kamaal istiqlaal se bardaasht kiya.
Jab Sayyid-ul-Mursaleen صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ko Allah Subhana-Wa-Taa’la ki jaanib se hijrat ka hukum mila to aap Hazrat Siddiq-e-Akbar رضى الله عنه ke ghar tashreef laaye aur safar ke liye tayyaari ka hukum diya Zaad-e-Safar tayyaar kiya gaya khaana chamday ke aik thelay mein rakha gaya lekin us ka mun baandhnay ke liye ghar mein koi rassi mojood na thi. Raazdaari ka taqaaza tha keh kisi se maangi bhi na jaaye to Hazrat Asma رضى الله عنها ne apna kamar band do hisson mein taqseem kiya. Aik se thelay ka mun baandh diya. kamar band ko ‘Arabi zabaan mein Nataaq kehte hain. Isi munaasbat se aap ka laqab Zaat-ul-Naqatain mashhoor ho gaya. Hazrat Asma رضى الله عنها ka yeh isaar dekh kar Rasool-e-Aqdas صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne irshaad farmaaya :
ان لك بها نطاقين في الجنة
” Yqeenan tairay liye is ke badlay Jannat mein: do kamar band ‘ataa kiye jaayen ge.”
Is Irshaad-e-Giraami mein Hazrat Asma رضى الله عنها ke liye Jannat ki bashaarat sunaai gayi. Yeh ‘izzat yeh ‘azmat aur yeh buland maqaam Allah Allah.
Aain Sa’adat Ba-zor-e-Baazu neest Taanah bakhsha Khudaa-e-Bakhshandah
Hazrat Asma رضی اللہ عنہا ki shaadi Hawaari-e-Rasool صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم Hazrat Zubair bin ‘Awam رضي الله عنه se hui. Yeh Hazrat Safia Bint-e-Abdul Muttlib ke betay thay. Jab nikah hua to un ke paas rehne ke liye aik ghar aik talwaar aur aik ghoda tha, Ghoday ki dekh bhaal karna aur usay chaara khilaana Hazrat Asma رضی اللہ عنھا ke zimmay tha. Hazrat Zubair tabiyat ke bohat taiz aur baday ghuseelay thay. Aik roz Hazrat Asma رضی اللہ عنہا chaaray ki gathdhi sar par uthaaye paidal chali aa rahi theen. Rasool-e-Aqdas صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم Allah ne usay dekhte hi apni uontni bitha di taake yeh sawaar ho jaaye lekin Hazrat Asma رضى الله عنها ne sharmaate hue aur apne khaawand ki ghuseeli tabiyat ko Paish-e-Nazar rakhtay hue paidal chalne ko hi tarjeeh di. Ghar aakar Hazrat Zubair ko waqi’ya sunaaya to unhon ne kaha kya kehnay. Gathadi sar par uthaany se to sawaar ho na kahin behtar tha.
Hazrat Asma رضى الله عنها hijrat kar ke jab Madinah Munawwara ke qareeb Waadi-e-Quba mein pohncheen to Abdullah bin Zubair peda hue. Un ki paidaaish se Musalmanon mein khushi ki leher daud gayi kyunkeh kaafi ‘arsay se Musalmanon mein narina aulaad na ho rahi thi, Jis se kufaar ne tamaskhraana khushi se baghlain, Bajana shuru’ kar di theen. Ghar ghar yeh baatein honay lageen ke ab Musalmanon mein beton ka peda hona band ho chuka hai. Lihaza ab yeh az khud khatam ho jaayen ge. Jab Abdullah bin Zubair رضى الله عنه peda hue to Musalmanon ke chehray khushi se timtimaa utthay. Rasool-e-Aqdas صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم bhi no molood ki khabar sun kar bohat khush hue usay goad mein liya, Ahal-e-Khanah ko mubaarak baad di. Apne Dahan-e-Mubaarak se usay ghutti di. Is tarhan Sayyid-ul-Mursaleen Rahmat-ul-Lil ‘Aalimeen صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ka Lu’aab-e-Mubarak Abdullah ke batan mein gaya. Yeh aik aisi sa’adat hai jis par jitna bhi naaz kiya jaaye kam hai.
Sayyid-ul-Mursaleen صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم aur Hazrat Siddiq-e-Akbar رضى الله عنه jab hijrat ke safar par rawaana ho gaye to Sayyidah Asma رضى الله عنها ke dada Hazrat Abu Quhafa jin ki binaayi budhapay ki wajah se khatam ho chuki thi, Unhen pata chala keh mera honahaar beta Daagh-e-Mufaarqat day kar kisi doosray sheher aabaad honay ke liye chala gaya hai to bohat afsurdah hue. Hazrat Asma رضى الله عنها se poocha kya akhrajaat ke liye kuch day gaye hain? Farmaati hain keh ghar mein paanch ya chay hazaar dinaar thay jo abba jaan safri akhrajaat ke liye apne saath le gaye thay lekin main ne dada jaan ko tasalli dete hue kaha aap fikar na karen ghar mein Allah ka diya sab kuch hai, Kisi cheez ki kami nahi. Chunkeh Woh na beena thay main ne sirf unhen mutma’een karne ke liye aik tadbeer ikhtiyaar ki. Ghar mein aik gadha khoud kar us mein dinaar ke size ki thikriyan bana kar rakh deen aur uopar aik kapda phela diya. Dada jaan ka haath pakad kar us par lagaaya to woh bohat khush hue keh mere betay ne bohat ‘aqalmandi aur hamdardi ka saboot diya hai. Hazrat Asma رضى الله عنها ne yeh Tarz-e-Amal mahez apne buzurg dada jaan ko mutma’een karne ke liye kiya tha warna Hazrat Siddiq-e-Akbar رضى الله عنه ne Allah Rab-ul-‘Izzat ki Zaat-e-Aqdas par kaamil bharosa karte hue ghar ki mukammal poonji Allah ki raah mein saraf karne ke liye apne hamrah le li thi.
REFERENCE:
Book: Sahabiyaat-e-Mubashiraat”
By Mahmood Ahmed Ghaznofar.