Hazrat Amar Bin Jamoh (رضی اللہ عنہ)

Aisa Azeem Sahabi jis ne jannat main langdaty hoy chal kar dakhil hony ka azam kia.

Hazrat Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہ ko Zamana-e-Jahiliyat mein yasrab ka aik azeem rahnuma maana jata tha, Aap qabeela Banu Salima ke sardaar the aur aap ka shumaar us waqt ke sakhi aur bahadur logo mein hota tha.

Zamana-e-Jahiliyat main Sardaaran-e-Arab mein ye rawaaj tha keh har sardar ke liy aik khososi jisy who bady ahtimam se apny ghar main rakhta takeh Subah-o-Shaam us se barkat hasil kare, Khushi ke waqt us ke naam par janwar qurbaan kare aur musibat ke waqt us se panah talab kare.

Hazrat Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہ ke but ka naam Manaat tha, Aur use badi umdah lakdi se tayyar karwaya gaya tha, Ghar mein uski bari nighadasht ki jaati aur intehayi aqeedat ke sath use aala qism ke itaryaat lagaye jaate.

Hazrat Amar bin Jamoh ki umar taqreeban 60 saal thi, Jab keh imaan ki kirney yake baad deeghare Yasrab ke har ghar mein ziaya paashiyan karne lage. Sab se pehle Muballigh-e-Islaam hazrat Musa’ab bin Umair رضی اللہ عنہ ki anthak koshish aur tableegh se hazrat Amar bin Jamoh ke teeno bete Muawwiz رضی اللہ عنہ Muaz رضی اللہ عنہ Khallaad رضی اللہ عنہ aur unkey mukhlis dost hazrat Ma’az bin Jabal رضی اللہ عنہ Halaqa-e-Islaam mein dakhil ho gaye.

Apne beto se mutassir ho kar unki walidah majidah Hind bhi musalmaan ho gayin Lekin hazrat Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہ ko is bat ka ilm nah ho saka keh un key tama Afrad-e-Khanah muslaman ho gaiy hain.

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Hazrar Amar bin Jamoh ki ahliyah Hind ne socha keh is waqt Ahel-e-Yasrab ki aksariyat ne islaam qubool kar liya hai, Sardaaran-e-Qurasih mein se un ke khawand aur deegar chand afraad ke ilawah sabhi Dairah-e-Islaam mein dakhil ho chukey hain, Biwi ke dil mein bari shiddat ke sath yeh ahsaas paaya jaata tha keh kahin uska khawand Haalat-e-Kufr mein hi nah mar jaaye.

Udhar hazrat Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہ ko andeshah tha ki kahin unke bete apne Abaa-o-Ajdaad ke deen ko chod kar Muballigh-e-Islaam hazrat Mu’asab bin Umair رضی اللہ عنہ ki pairwi hi na ikhtiyaar kar len, Jinhon ney thodi hi muddat mein bhut se afraad ko apne abaayi deen se munharsf kar ke Deen-e-Muhammad (ﷺ) ka shidayi bana diya tha.

Unhon nay apni biwi se kaha:

Hind, Khabardaar! Khayal rakhna keh kahin tere bete Mu’asab bin Umair رضی اللہ عنہ ke chungle mein nah phans jaayen, Phr yun kaha keh hamen us shakhs ke mutalliq kuch sochna hi padega.

Biwi ne arz ki:

Aapka hukum sar aankhon par, Lekin kya aap apne bete Muaz se woh baat sunna pasand karenge jo woh Mu’asab bin Umair ke hawaale se bayaan karta hai.

Unhon ney kaha: Bade afsos ki baat hai, Kya Muaz apne deen se mungaraf ho chuka hai, Aur mujhe uska ilm nah ho saka, Us naik khatoon ne jab apne khawand ke tewar daikhe to fauran boli nahin, nahin, Beta to sirf Mu’asab bin Umair ki kisi aik majlis mein shareaik hua tha us majlis mein baatein huin, Woh usne zabaani yaad kar len.

To us ne kah:

Achha bete ko mere paas lao, Beta jab samne aaya to use kahne lage mujhe bhi woh kuch sunao jo tum us majlis mein sun kar aaye ho to bete ne surah fatiha ki tilawat shuru kar di.

اَلْحَمْدُ لِلّٰهِ رَبِّ الْعٰلَمِيْنَ      Ǻ۝ۙالرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ    Ą۝ۙمٰلِكِ يَوْمِ الدِّيْنِ   Ǽ۝ۭاِيَّاكَ نَعْبُدُ وَاِيَّاكَ نَسْتَعِيْنُ    Ć۝ۭاِھْدِنَا الصِّرَاطَ الْمُسْتَـقِيْمَ    Ĉ۝ۙصِرَاطَ الَّذِيْنَ اَنْعَمْتَ عَلَيْهِمْ ۹ غَيْرِ الْمَغْضُوْبِ عَلَيْهِمْ وَلَا الضَّاۗلِّيْنَ      Ċ۝ۧآمین

“Allah ke naam se jo Rahmaan-o-Raheem hai, Tareef Allah hi ke liye hai jo tamaam kainaat ka rab hai, Rahmaan-o-Raheem hai, Roz-e-Jazaa ka maalik hai, Ham teri hi ibadat karte hain aur tujhi se madad mangte hain, Hamain seedha raasta dikha, Un logo ka raasta jis par tune inaam farmaaya, Jo maatub nahi hue, Jo bhatke hue nahin hain, Aameen”

Sun kar kahne lage yeh to bhut umdah kalaam hai.

Kya uski har baat isi tarah ki hoti hai.

Hazrat Muaz ne kaha:

Abba jaan! Is se bhi umdah unki baaton se mutassir ho kar tu aap ki puri qaum un ke haath par bait kar chuki hai, Kya aap bait nahin karenge?

Bete ki yeh baat sun kar thodi dair khamosh rahe phr kahene lage main to itna bara iqdaam apnay mabood Manaat se mashwara liy bagair nahin kar saktaa, Daikhta hun keh woh mujhay is silsila mein kya hukum detaa hai.

Bete ne kaha:

Abba jaan! Ye mumkin nahin keh Manaat aap se koi baat kare yeh to aik lakri kaa bana hua but hai jis mein naa sunne ki salahiyat hai aur naa hi jawaab dene ki.

Baap ghusse se bola:

Main ne tujhe aik dafa keh diya hai keh main hargiz us waqt tak koi faisla nahin karunga jab tak Manaat se mashwara na kar lun.

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Phr hazrat Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہ uth kar Manaat ki taraf gaye, Unka yeh mamul tha keh jab kabhi apne mabood Manaat se koi baat karna hoti to uske peeche uot mein aik budhiya aurat ko khada kar dety. Is silsila mein unka ye khayal tha keh budhiya mere har sawaal ka wahi jawaab deti hai jo Manaat ki taraf se uske zahen mein ilqaa kiya jaata hai, Phr woh Manaat ke samene apni aik taang ke bal seedhe khade ho gaye kyunkeh unki dusri taang langdi  thi, Pehle unhon ne Manaat ki bhut tareef ki, Phr ye arz pesh ki.

Aye Manaat! Bilashuba tujhe is baat ka ilm hai keh ye muballigh Mu’asab bin Umair jo makkah se hamari is waadi mein waarid hua hai yeh tere ilawah aur kisi ko koi nuqsaan ponhchana nahi chahta yeh yahan sirf isliye aaya hai keh hamein teri ibaadat se rok de.

Mujhe ye baat munasib malum nahi hoti keh yun hi uske haath peh bait kar lun, Halankeh main ne uski bohat umdah baatein suni hain, Aaj isi liye aap se mashwara lene aaya hun Azraah-e-Karam meri rahnumai farmaain mai bohat pareshaan hun.

Lekin Manaat ki taraf se koi jawaab nah aaya.

Yeh Surat-e-Haal daikh kar behad afsurdah hue aur kaha:

Mery pyaare Manaat! Shayad aap naraaz ho gaye hain.

Mai aapse waada karta hun keh aainda koi aisi baat nahin karunga jo aapko na gawaar guzre aap naraaz naa hon, main chand din tak aapke paas aaunga taakeh aapka ghussa thanda ho jaaye.

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Hazrat Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہ ke teeno bete yeh jaante the keh unke waalid ka apne mabood Manaat ke saath bhut gahera qalbi talluq hai, Yeh Talluq-e-Khaatir bhala kyun nah ho, Aik taweel arsa se Manaat ki pooja paat uske Rag-o-Reshe mein rach bas chuki thi, Lekin unhain is cheez ka ahsaas hua keh baap ke dil mein Manaat ki Qadar-o-Manzilat mein chanda kami waqi ho chuki hai. Lekin unki ye koshish thi keh Manaat ki mohabbat unke dil se bilkul nikaal den, Tabhi woh imaan qubool karne ke liye aamdah honge.

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Aik dafa hazrat Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہ ke teeno bete apne saathi Muaz bin jabal رضی اللہ عنہ ke sath raat ki tareeki mrin Manaat ke paas aaye, Unho ne use utahya aur le jaa kar usko aik gadhe mein phenk diya, Jis mein banu Salima gandagi phenka karte the, Ya kar ravai karne key baad chupke se woh ghar laut aaye.

Kisi ko bhi is waqia ka koi ilm na ho saka, Jab subah ke waqt janab Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہ apne maabod ko salaam karne ke liye gaye to kya daikhte hain keh but to wahan se ghayab hai, Kahne lage:

Sad afsos! Is raat hamare mabood ko kisi ne ghayab kar diya.

Ahel-e-Khana mein kisi ney bhi koi jawab na diya to unho ne apne ghar ke andar aur bahar har jagah daikha, Ghusse se Peech-o-Taab khaate hue talaash karte karte us ghade tak jaa pohanche jis mein log gandagi phenkte the, Kya daikhte hain keh Manaat sar ke bal us ghade me pada hua hai, Usy bahar nikala dhoyaa saaf kiya, usey khushbu lagayi aur wahan se utha kar dobara apne ghar le jaa kar us ki jagah par khada kar diya aur us se mukhatib ho kar kahene lage.

Allah ki qasam! Agar mujhe us shakhs ka ilm ho jaata jisne tere saath ye sulook kiya to use aaj bhut Zaleel-o-Ruswa karta.

Jab dusri raat hui to bete but ko chupke se utha kar usi ghade mein phr phenk aaye jis mein use pehli raat phenka tha.

Baap ne subah ke waqt daikha keh uska ma’abood Manaat phr gayab hai, Talaash basiyaar ke baad use phr usi ghade mein munh kay bal pada hua mila, Wahan se use bahar nikala, Dhoya, Saaf kiya aur use utha kar ghar le aaya aur dobarah us ki jagah par laakar khada kar diya.

Teeno bete rozanaa Manaat kay saath yahi sulook karte rahe.

Baap is Surat-e-Haal se behad pareshaan hua aik din usne aise kiya keh apni talwaar Manaat ke gale mein latka di aur kahene laga:

Aye mere Manaat! Mujhe to ilm nahi keh tere saath ye sulook kaun kar raha hai? Agar tum mein himmat hai toh khud apna difaa karo ye talwaar tere paas maujood hai, Ye kaha aur khud apne bistar par aa kar let gaye.

Jab beton ko yaqeen ho gaya keh unka baap gaheri neend so gaya hai to woh dabe paaw Manaat kay paas aaye uski gardan say talwaar utaari aur use chupke se utha kar ghar se bagar nikal gaye, Unho ne uske saath aik mara hua kutta bhi baandh diya aur Banu Salima ke us kuwain me phenk aaye jis mein ganda paani jamaa hota tha.

Baap jab neend se bedaar hua daikha keh Manaat phr gayab hai, Talaash karte hue woh kuwain tak pohuncha us mein daikha kay Manaat munh ke bal us mein pada hua hai aur aik murdah kutta uske saath bandha hua hai aur talwaar us se cheen li gayi hain, Ye manzar daikh kar uske dil mein nafrat paida ho gayi aur is dafaa use wahin rahene diya aur kahene lage:

Allah ki qasam! Agar tu mushkil kusha hota to tu aur kutta aik saath kuwain mein naa pade hote.

Thodi hi deer baad aapne musalmaan hone ka ailaan kar diya.

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Hazrat Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہ Lazzat-e-Imaani se shaad kaam hue, Lekin unho ne shirk ki halat mein jo din guzaare the, Us par unhein intehaayi afsos tha, Ab woh Deen-e-Islaam ki taraf pure ikhlaas se mutawajja hue, Apni jaan maal aur aulaad ko Allah ta’aala aur uske Rasool-e-Maqbool (ﷺ) ke liye waqf kar diya.

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Thode hi arsaa baad Ghazwa-e-Uhud waqu puzer hua, Hazrat Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہ ne apne teeno naujawaan beton ko daikhaa keh woh dushman se muqabla karne ki tayyari mein masroof hain aur Subah-o-Shaam bahadur sheeron ki manind aa jaa rahe hain aur woh Jaam-e-Shahadat nosh karne aur Allah Subhan-o-Ta’aala ki khushnudi hasil karney ke liye har dam bechain hain, Aap ne apne beton ke Jazbay-e-Jihaad se mutassir ho kar khud bhi Maidaan-e-Kaarzaar mein rasool Allah (ﷺ) ke jhande tale dushmanon se nabar aazma hone ka azam kar liya Lekin beton ne apne baap ko is irada se roka.

Kyun keh aik to woh umar raseedah the, Mazeed bara’a woh aik taang say mazoor bhi thy.

Beton ne arz ki:

Abba jaan Allah ta’aala ke jaanib se aap mazur hain aap yeh takleef na uthaayen, Allah Subhan-o-Ta’aala ne aapko is zimmedaari se sabkadosh kar diya hai.

Baap apne beton ki baatein sun kar ranjeedah khaatir hue aur Rasool Allah (ﷺ) ki khidmat mein hazir ho kar shikwa karne lage ya Rasool Allah (ﷺ)! Mere bete mujhe jihaad mein sharik hone se rok rahe hain, Aur daleel ye dete hain keh main langda hun.

Allah ki qasam! Main to langdata hua jannat mein daakhil hona chahta hun.

Rasool Allah (ﷺ) ne unka ye shauk daikh kar unke beton se irshaad farmaya: Inhain jihaad mein sharik hone do, Shayad Allah ta’aala inhain shahadat naseeb farma den, Rasool Allah ka hukum sun kar beton ne khamoshi ikhtiyaat kar li.

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Jab jihaad ke liye maidaan ki taraf nikalne ka waqt aaya to hazrat Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہ ne apni biwi ko is andaaz se alwida kaha: Jaisa keh ab kabhi wapas ghar nahin lautenge, Phr qibla rukh ho kar asmaan ki taraf apne haath uthaaye aur ye dua ki:

Ilaahi! Mujhe shahadat naseeb karna aur mujhe na kaam bana kar apne Ahel-e-Khaana ki taraf naa lautana, Phr woh apne beton ke jalo main Maidaan-e-Jung ki taraf chal pade, Unki qaum Banu Salima ke bohut se afraad is jung mein sharik hue jab Maidaan-e-Kaar zaar garm hua to Mujahideen-e-Islaam Rasool Allah (ﷺ) ke gird mukhtalif daston mein bant gaye, Hazrat Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہ ko daikha keh woh sab se agle dasta mein chale jaa rahe hain aur apni aik taang ke sahaare chahkriya bharte hue tezi se aage badh rahe hain aur apni zabaan mubarak se yeh kah rahe hain.

“Mai jannat ka mushaaq hun mai jannat ka matlaashi hun.

Aur unke peeche unka beta khallaad رضی اللہ عنہ chala aa raha tha, Ye budhe mujahid aur unka jawaan beta Rasool Allah ki jaanib se musalsal difaa karte rahe, Yahan tak keh dono yake baad deegare Maidaan-e-Jung mein Jaam-e-Shahadat nosh farma gaye.

Jab jung khatam hui to Rasool Allah (ﷺ) shuhda ki taraf tashreef le gaye taakeh unki tadfeen ka bandobast kiya jaaye.

Aap ne irshaad frmaya:

Shuhda-e-Islaam ka khoon aur zakhmo ki haalat mein hi rahene do.

Roz-e-Qayamat Allah ta’aala ke huzoor main unki shahadat ki gawahi dunga.

Phr irshaad farmaya:

Jab koi Allah ta’aala ki raah mein zakhmi kar diya jaata hai to use qayamat ke din is halat mein uthaya jayega keh uske zakhmon se zaafraani rang ka khoon bah raha hoga aur us se kastoori ki khushbu aa rahi hogi.

Phr irshaad farmaya:

Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہ aur Abdullaah bin Amar ko aik hi qabar mein dafan kar do yeh dono apas mein aik dusre ke saath mahaz Allah ta’aala ki raza ke liye muhabbat kiya karte thy.

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Hazrat Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہaur unke saathi uhud ke shuhda se Allah ta’aala se raazi ho gaya aur unki kabron ko apni rahemat se munwwar kar diya.

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Hazrat Amar bin Jamoh رضی اللہ عنہke mufassal Halat-e-Zangi janny ky liy dard zial kitabun ka mutala kijiy:

1: Al Isaabah Mutarjim                                                                                            5799

2: Sifat ul Safwah                                                                                                       1/365

REFERENCE:

Book: Hayat-e-Sahaba kay darakh shah pahelo.
By: Dr. Abdur Rahman Rafat Al- Pasha.