44. Sayyidah Umm-e-Khair Bint-e-Sakhar رضى الله عنها
Sayyidah Umm-e-Khair Bint-e-Sakhar رضى الله عنها
Abu Bakar Siddiq ki walida:
Umm-e-Khair ki shadi Abu Quhafa kay sath hui. Jab us kay han koi bacha janam leta to woh thodi deer kay bad hi wafat pa jata. Aik martaba aisa huwa keh jab bacha peda huwa to woh us no-molood ko god mein lay kar Baitullah kay pas aai aur yeh dua ki:
“اللهم هذا عتيقك من الموت”
“Ilahi! Is ko moat say aazadi ata kar.”
Yeh mujhay inayat kar day, (Tareekh-e-Damishaq Libn-e-Asakir (30/21) Al-Isabah (4/171)) Woh moat say aazadi panay wala no-molood zinda raha. Allah T’aala nay Umm-e-Khair ki dua ko qabool kar liya. Yeh moat say aazadi panay wala no-molood kon tha? Yeh Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه thay. Siyidina Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه Zamana-e-Jahiliyat mein Muhammad Bin Abdullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay gehray dosat thay. Jab Unhein Mansab-e-Risalat par faaiz kiya gaya to Abu Bakar رضى الله عنه tashreef laay, Unhon nay darwazay par dastak di, Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ghar say bahir niklay aur farmaya:
“يا أبا بکر إنى رسول الله اليك وإلى الناس کلهم فامن بالله”
“Aye Abu Bakar! Mein teri aur tamam logon ki taraf Allah ka Rasool صلى الله عليه وسلم hoon, So tum Allah par iman laao.”
Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه nay usi waqat kaha: Aye Allah kay Rasool صلى الله عليه وسلم apna hath badhaiye, Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay apna hath badhaya to Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه nay hath pakad kar kaha:
“أشهد ان لااله الا الله وأشهد أنك رسول الله”
“Mein gawahi deta hoon keh Allah kay siwa koi Mabood-e-Haqiqi nahin aur mein gawahi deta hoon keh aap صلى الله عليه وسلم Allah kay Rasool hain.”
(Usd-ul-Ghabah (2/140) Tareekh-e-Damishaq Libn-e-Asakir (30/33))
Us lamhay Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه sab say badh kar s’aadat mand thay. Imam Bukhari nay Wabara Bin Abdul Rahman say aur unhon nay Hamam say riwayat kiya, Kehtay hain keh mein nay Ammar Bin Yasir رضى الله عنه say suna woh kehtay hain:
“رأيت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم وما معه إلا خمسة أعبد وامرأ تان و أبوبکر”
(Sahih Bukhari, Kitab Fazaail-e-Ashaab-ul-Nabi رضى الله عنهم, باب: قول النبى صلى الله عليه وسلم لو کنت متخذا خليلا: 3857)
“Mein nay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ko dekha, Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم kay sat panch (5) ghulam do (2) auratein aur Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه thay.”
Deen-e-Islam ki Nashar-o-Isha’at kay liye Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay muaawin banay. Un kay hath par Kibaar Sahaba Karaam رضى الله عنهم nay Islam qabool kiya, Jesa keh Sayyiduna Usman Bin Affan, Sayyiduna Zubair Bin Awam, Sayyiduna Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf, Sayyiduna Saad Bin Abi Waqas aur Sayyiduna Talha Bin Ubaidullah رضى الله عنهم Yeh sab Sahaba Karaam رضى الله عنهم Dar-e-Arqm mein Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay pas ikatthay hotay thay aur Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم say deeni ahkaam aur Quraan ki taleem hasil kartay thay.
(Seerat Ibn-e-Hishaam (Safha: 117))
Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه ka mamool yeh tha keh woh har waqat Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay sath rehtay aur Aksar-o-Beshtar Quraish kay samnay seena taan kar khaday ho jatay, Taa’keh woh Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ko koi aziyat na pohancha sakein. Urwa Bin Zubair رضى الله عنه nay Abdullah Bin Amar say poocha keh Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ko sab say zayada takleef kis nay pohanchaai? Unhon nay bataya keh mein nay Uqba Bin Abi Mueet ko dekha keh woh Nabi Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم kay pas aaya jab’keh Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم namaz padh rahay thay. Us kam’bakhat nay Aap صلى الله عليه kay galay mein chadar dal kar zor say khencha. Aik taraf say Abu Bakar رضى الله عنه aa gaye, Unhon nay us na’hanjaar ko dhakka day kar pichay hataya aur is moqa par yeh kalmaat kahay:
“اَتَقۡتُلُوۡنَ رَجُلًا اَنۡ يَّقُوۡلَ رَبِّىَ اللّٰهُ وَقَدۡ جَآءَكُمۡ بِالۡبَيِّنٰتِ مِنۡ رَّبِّكُمۡؕ”
(Al-Ghaafir: 40/28)
Kya tum aik aisay shakhas ko qatal karnay ka darpay ho jo yeh kehta hai keh mera Rab Allah hai, Halan’keh Woh tumharay pas tumharay Rab ki janib say wazeh dalaail lay kar aaya hai.”
(Sahih Bukhari, Kitab-ul-Tafseer, Soorah-e-Momin: 4815.)
Quraish kay aik jatthay nay Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه ko bhot buri tarah mara, Qareeb tha keh aap maar ki shiddat ko bardashat na kar patay aur foat ho jatay. Itnay mein un ki qoam Banu Tameem kay log aagay badhay, Unhon nay Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه ko marnay walon kay chungal say chudaya aur unhein utha kar ghar laaye, Un ka chehra khoon say lat pat tha. (Seerat Ibn-Hishaam (Safha: 132-133) Musnad Al-Humaidi (47)) Jab un ki haalat qadray behtar hui to unhon nay poocha keh Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ka kya hal hai?
Aap رضى الله عنه nay apni walida Umm-e-Khair say kaha: Ammi jan! Aap Fatima Bint-e-Khattab, Yani Saeed Bin Zaid ki biwi aur Umar Bin Khattab ki hamsheera say poochein, Woh aap ko Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay baray mein sahih maloomaat day sakay gi aur wahi bataye gi keh is waqat Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم kahan hain. Umm-e-Khair Fatima Bint-e-Khattab say mil kar wapis aai aur apnay betay Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه ko bataya keh beta! Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم is waqat Dar-e-Arqam Bin Abil-Arqam mein hain aur woh bilkul Khair-o-Aafiyat say hain.
Umm-e-Khair ka islam qabool karna:
Jab Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه ki tawanaai bahal hui to woh apni walida Umm-e-Khair aur Fatima Bint-e-Khattab kay hamrah ghar say niklay aur seedhay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ki khidmat mein hazir huaye. Jab wahan baithay Sahaba Karaam رضى الله عنهم nay Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه ko dekha to un ki aankhon say be-tahasha aansoo behnay lagay, Kiun’keh Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه ka chehra sooja huwa tha.
Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه nay araz kiya: Aye Allah kay Rasool صلى الله عليه وسلم! Meray maan baap Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم par qurban hon, Log mera chehra dekh kar ranjeeda hain, Lekin mein theek hoon, Chehray kay zakhmi honay ki koi parwah nahin, Yeh jalad hi theek ho jaye ga. Yeh meri walida hai, Yeh mujh say khush hai kiun’keh mein is ka farman-bardar aur khidmat-guzaar beta hoon, Mujhay umeed hai keh Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم kay zariaye Allah T’aala isay Jahannam say bachaye ga aur yeh Islam qabool kar kay Jannat mein janay ki mustahiq ho jaye.
(Al-Isabah (4/87) Seerat-ul–Nabi, Libn-e-Kaseer (1/439-440) Usd-ul-Ghabah: (3/436).)
Umm-e-Khair apnay betay ki raaye aur Aqal-o-Danish par aetimad karti thi. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay Umm-e-Khair ko Quraani aayaat sunana shuru kein aur Daaira-e-Islam mein dakhil honay ki dawat di. Umm-e-Khair رضى الله عنها nay fori tor par Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ki dawat ko qabool kartay huaye “لااله الا الله محمد رسول الله” Kehtay huaye Daaira-e-Islam mein dakhil honay ki s’aadat hasil kar li. Apni walida ki taraf say Islam qabool karnay ka manzar dekhnay par Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه bhot zayada khush huaye.
Fatah-e-Makkah kay din Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه apnay walid Abu Quhafa ko lay kar Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ki khidmat mein hazir huaye, Un ki aankhon ki binaai khatam ho chuki thi, Unhon nay bhi Islam qabool karnay ka aelan kar diya.
Is tarah un ka poora kunba Daaira-e-Islam mein dakhil ho gaya aur Islam qabool karnay say un ki aakhein thandi aur dil masroor ho gaye. Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه ki dili aarzu poori hui. Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه ki wafat kay thoday arsay bad un ki walida Umm-e-Khair رضى الله عنها bhi Allah ko peyari ho gaien aur Sayyiduna Umar Bint-e-Khattab رضى الله عنه kay Daur-e-Khilafat mein Sayyiduna Abu Bakar Siddiq رضى الله عنه kay walid garami Sayyiduna Abu Quhafa رضى الله عنه bhi Daai-e-Ajal ko Labbaik kehtay huaye Khaliq-e-Haqiqi say ja milay.
(Al-Isabah (4/87) Usd-ul-Ghabah (3/436).)
Allah سبحانه و تعالى un sab par Apni rahmat ka saya daraz karay aur unki hasnaat ko qabool karay. Aameen Ya Rabbul-Aalameen!
Reference:
Book: Hayat-e-Sahaabiyaat kay Darakhshah pahelo.
Taleef: Mahmood T’ama Halbi
Mutarjim: Abu Ziya Mehmood Ahmad Ghaznofar Hafizahullah.