Sayyidah Umm-e-Rafe رضى الله عنها

 

Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ki kaneez:

 

Nam Salma, Kuniyat Umm-e-Rafe aur shohar ka nam Abu Rafe tha. Yeh Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ki kaneez thein aur in ka khawand Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ka ghulam tha. Is say badh kar in donon kay liye kya sharaf ho sakta hai keh in ko Sayyid-ul-Bashar صلى الله عليه وسلم ki khidmat karnay ka aezaz hasil huwa. Unhein Habeeb-e-Kibriya صلى الله عليه وسلم ka qurab aur khidamat karnay ki s’aadat naseeb hui, Aur yeh un donon ki zindagi ka nihayat khushgawar tohfa tha.

Salma رضى الله عنها aur un kay khawand nay us waqat Islam qabool kar liya tha jab woh Nabi Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم kay sath Makkah mein thay aur Aaftab-e-Imaan ko taloo hotay dekha tha. Yeh donon Aaftab-e-Imaan ki gudaz hararat say mustafeez huaye aur donon nay Quraish ki janib say apnay hissay ki takaleef bardashat kein, Is liye keh inhon nay apni zuban say Allah T’aala ko Rabb-ul-Aalameen keh diya tha aur Quraish ko yeh gawara na tha.

Sayyidah Salma رضى الله عنها Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم aur un kay Ahal-e-Khana ki khidmat mein masroof rehti thein aur un ki Khushi-o-Ghami mein barabar ki shareek hotein. Ahal-e-Khana ki khush’hali say khush hotein aur jab unhein koi gham la-haq hota to yeh bhi ghamgeen ho jatein.

Jab Sayyidah Khadija رضى الله عنها Waza-e-Hamal ki haalat mein hotein to yeh un ki madad kartein. Jab Sayyidah Fatimat-ul-Zahra رضى الله عنها nay janam liya to Umm-e-Raafe رضى الله عنها nay badi janfishani say khidmat ka fareeza sar-anjam diya.

 

(Usd-ul-Ghabah (3/367).)

 

Gharaz yeh keh Umm-e-Rafe رضى الله عنها Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم aur un kay Ahal-e-Khana ki Khushi-o-Ghami mein barabar ki shareek hotein. Jab woh khush hotay to yeh bhi khushi say nihal ho jatein aur jab unhein koi gham ya pareeshani hoti to yeh bhi ghamgeen ho jatein.

Jab Salma ko maloom huwa keh Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay chacha Hamza Bin Abdul Muttalib رضى الله عنه nay Islam qabool kar liya hai to aap bhot khush huien kiunkeh un kay Islam qabool karnay say musalmanon ko Ghalba-o-Sarfarazi hasil hui aur Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ki quwwat mein izafa huwa. Jab Sayyiduna Hamza رصى الله عنه ko pata chala keh Quraish kay bad’bakhat Abul Hakam Bin Hishaam jo Abu Jahal kay nam say mash’hoor hai, Us nay meray bhai kay betay ko gali di hai to Sayyiduna Hamza رضى الله عنه ghazabnak ho kar Abu Jahal kay pas gaye, Woh Haram mein aik majlis mein betha huwa tha. Sayyiduna Hamza رضى الله عنه kay hath mein aik kamaan thi aur jatay hi woh us ki peshani par day mari, Jis say us ka chehra buri tarah zakhmi ho gaya. Aur baday ghusay say kaha keh tum meray bhai kay betay ko gali detay ho, Jabkeh mein bhi us kay deen par hoon. Meray jeetay ji koi us ko kuch kahay aur phir bach kay chala jaaye yeh mumkin nahin hai.

Majlis mein baithay logon nay Abu Jahal ki madad karna chahi to us nay kaha: Abu Ammara ko kuch na kehna kiunkeh mein nay waqai us kay bhatijay ko gali di hai jis par usay taish aaya hai. Haqeeqat mein abhi Hamza Bin Abdul Muttalib رضى الله عنه nay ba’qaaida Islam qabool nahin kiya tha lekin yeh waqia un kay Islam qabool karnay ka sabab ban gaya. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ko Hamza رضى الله عنه kay Islam qabool karnay say ghalba hasil huwa aur Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ka difa mazboot ho gaya aur Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ka Gham-o-Andoh zaail ho gaya aur dili musarrat mehsoos hui.

 

(Seerat Ibn-e-Hishaam (Safha: 133) Mustadrak Haakim (3/192).)

 

Umm-e-Rafe رضى الله عنها ki khidmat guzari:

 

Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ko jab koi zakham aa jata to Sayyidah Salma رضى الله عنها us zakham ka ilaj kartein. (Sunan Tirmizi, Kitab-ul-Tib, باب: ما جاء فى التداوى بالجناء: 2054, Sunan Ibn-e-Majah, Kitab-ul-Tib, باب: الحناء: 3502) Aur Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم bhi un ki madad kiya kartay thay. Aik dafa unhon nay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم say apnay khawand kay rawayye ki shikayat ki. Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم nay shikayat sun kar Abu Rafe رضى الله عنه ko kaha kay aainda tum kabhi bhi apni biwi say sakhti kay sath pesh na aana, Us kay sath naram rawayya ikhtiyar karna.

Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay farmaya: “Yeh tujhay acha mashwara deti hai, Aye Abu Rafe! Isay mara na karo.” (Mujam Kabeer Tabrani (24/301)) Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم Umm-e-Rafe رضى الله عنها kay muaqaf ki taeed kiya kartay thay, Kiunkeh woh haq par hoti thein. Jo haq ka madad-gaar ho wahi is ka mustahiq hai keh us kay muaqaf ki taeed ki jaaye.

Allah سبحانه وتعالى Umm-e-Rafe aur Abu Rafe رضى الله عنهما donon par Apni rahmat ki barkha barsaaye. Aameen YaRabb-ul-Aalameen!

 

Reference:

 Book: Hayat-e-Sahaabiyaat kay Darakhshah pahelo.

Taleef: Mahmood T’ama Halbi

Mutarjim: Abu Ziya Mehmood Ahmad Ghaznofar Hafizahullah.