53. Sayyidah Sheema Bint-e-Haris رضى الله عنها
Sayyidah Sheema Bint-e-Haris رضى الله عنها
Khandani Pas-e-Manzar:
Nam Sheema, Walid ka nam Haris Saadi aur walida ka nam Haleema Sadiya hai. Sayyiduna Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم un kay razaai bhai thay. Quraish ki khawateen ki yeh aadat thi keh woh bachay ko janam denay kay bad us ki jismani nasho-numa aur tandrusti kay liye dodh pilanay ki muddat mein usay deehati ilaqay mein bhej diya karti thein, Wahan auratein ujrat par dodh pilanay ka fareeza sar’anjam diya kari thein. Deehati mahool mein parwarish panay walay bachay ki zuban mein bhi Fasahat-o-Balaghat peda ho jati. Jab Aamina Bint-e-Wahab nay bachay ko janam diya to us ka baap us ki wiladat say pehlay hi wafat paa chuka tha. Banu Saad qabeelay ki auratein dodh peenay walay bachay hasil karnay kay liye Makkah Muazzamah aaien. Un sab nay Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم ko goad lenay say inkar kar diya, Kiunkeh Aap yateem thay. Sab daaiyon ki nigah aisay bachon par thi jin ka baap zinda ho, Taa’keh woh zayada ujrat day aur woh un par zayada sakhawat karay aur apnay maal say wafir miqdar mein raqam un par kharach karay. Lekin Haleema Sadiya Aamina kay Durr-e-Yateem صلى الله عليه وسلم ko goad lenay par razamand ho gaien. Is tarah Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ki barkat say us kay ghar mein Khair-o-Bhalai kay dariya behnay lagay.
(Seerat Ibn-e-Hishaam (Safha: 77-78) TabqaT Ibn-e-Saad (1/110-111) Musnad-e-Abi Y’ali (1/128) Sahih Ibn-e-Hibbaan (Mawarid: 2094) واسناده ضعيف)
Sayyidah Haleema Sadiya رضى الله عنها dodh pilaya karti thein, Jabkeh un ki beti Sheema Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم ko goad mein uthaya karti thein, (Dalaail-ul-Nubuwwah Li-Abi Nuaeem (450) Dalaail-ul-Nubuwwah Lil-Baihaqi (1/56) Seerat Ibn-e-Is’haq (Safha: 5) Seerat Ibn-e-Hishaam (78).) kabhi jhoola jhulatay huaye yeh ash’sar padha karti thein:
يا ربنا أبق أخي محمدا حتى اراه يافعا و امردا
ثم اراه سيدا مسودا والبت اعاديه معاد الحسدا
واعطه عزا يدوم ابدا
“Aye hamaray Rab! meray bhai Muhammad ko baqi rakhna. Yahan tak keh mein isay ghabroo jawan dekhoon. Phir Isay ba-izzat aur ba-kirdar banta huwa dekhoon. Is kay dushmanon aur hasideen ko oondhay munh gira dena aur Isay daaimi izzat ata karna.”
Doosari dafa woh yeh kehtein:
هذا اخ لى لم تلده امی و ليس من نسل امى و ابى
فانمه اللهم فيما تمنى
“Yeh mera bhai hai, Lekin meri maan nay Isay janam nahin diya. Aur na hi Yeh meray walid aur chacha ki nasal say hai. Ilahi! Isay khoob parwan chadhana.”
Sheema رضى الله عنها apnay Quraishi bhai ka bhot khayal rakhtein aur Usay bhot ahmiyat detein, Aik din Sheema apnay razaai bhai ko lay kar bahir gaien. Garmi bhot zayada thi. Haleema Sadiya رضى الله عنه ghabra gaien aur unkay pichay gaien, Taakeh unhein wapis ghar lay aayein. Garmi mein ghar say nikaltay waqat beti nay apni maan say keh diya tha keh ammi jan! Aap koi fikar na karein, Garmi ki wajah say bhi darein nahin, Aik badli meray bhai par Saya-e-Fagan rehti hai. Yeh jab kahin khada hota hai to badli khadi ho jati hai aur jab chalta hai to badli bhi chalnay lagti hai. Yeh khabar sun kar Haleema Sadiya Angashat-e-Ba’dandan reh gaien.
Jab dodh pilanay ki muddat khatam ho gai to Haleema Sadiya Sayyiduna Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم ko apnay sath lay kar un ki walida Aamina Bint-e-Wahab kay pas aaien. Phir Sayyidah Aamina kay Durr-e-Yateem ko alamnak hadsaat ka samna karna pada. Pehlay walida foat huien, Phir dada Abdul Muttalib wafat pa gaye. Phir Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم kay chacha Abu Talib nay wafat paai.
Pachees (25) saal ki umar mein Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ki shadi Sayyidah Khadija رضى االه عنها say hui, Jab Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ki umar chalees (40) baras hui to Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ko Allah Kareem ki taraf say Mansab-e-Risalat par faaiz kiya gaya. Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم is mansab par baday behtareen andaz mein qaaim rahay.
Wafadari muazzizeen ki aadaat mein say hai:
Din phir gaye, Musalmanon ko Hawazin par fatah hasil hui. Sheema bhi is qabeelay kay qaidiyon mein say thein. Jab unhein Nabi Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم ki khidmat mein pesh kiya gaya aur unhon nay apna taruf karaya, Halankeh Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ko usay dekhay pachas (50) saal beet chukay thay, Us kay taruf karanay par Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم usay pehchan gaye aur unhein khush-aamdeed kaha aur daryafat kiya keh agar woh yahan rehna pasand karti hai to usay mukammal tahaffuz diya jaaye ga aur agar woh apni qoam kay pas wapis jana chahti hai to us ka bhi ba-izzat tareeqay say ahtimam kar diya jaaye ga. Unhon nay wapis apni qoam kay pas janay ko tarjeeh di lekin waqis janay say pehlay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay samnay Islam qabool kar liya. Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم nay nihayat umda andaz mein unhein qoam kay pas pohancha diya.
(Seerat Ibn-e-Hishaam (Safha: 572) Usd-ul-Ghabah (3/374). Tareekh-e-Tabri (2/64).)
Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ki khidmat mein Aap ka razaai chacha hazir huwa aur us nay yad karaya keh mein Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ka razaai chacha hoon. Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم hamaray han qiyam pazeer rahay hain. Hamara maal aur afraad Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم kay qabzay mein hain, Az’rah-e-Karam woh hamein wapis kar dein.
(Seerat-ul-Nabi Libn-e-Kaseer (3/679).)
Imam Nasaai nay Sayyiduna Abdullah Bin Amar رضى الله عنه say bayan kiya hai keh ham Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم kay pas thay keh Hawazin ka wafad Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ki khidmat mein hazir huwa aur kehnay laga: Aye Mihammad صلى الله عليه وسلم! Ham aik asal aur aik qabeelay say hain, Hamara Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم say talluq hai. Jesa keh Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم jantay hain keh ham par musibaat nazil hui hai, Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ham par ahsan karein Allah Aap par ahsan karay ga. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay farmaya: “Tum aik cheez ka intikhab kar lo, Apnay maal lay lo ya aurtein aur bachay lay lo.” Unhon nay kaha keh Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم nay hamein maal ya auraton aur bachon ko muntakhib karnay ka ikhtiyar diya hai to ham auraton aur bachon ko pasand kartay hain. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay farmaya: “Jo maal meray pas aur Banu Abdul Muttalib kay pas hai woh tumhara hai. Jab mein Zohar ki namaz ada kar loon tum khaday ho kar aelan karna keh ham Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ka hawala day kar Ahal-e-Imaan say madad talab kartay hain, Hamari auratein aur betay hamaray hawalay kar diye jayein.” Unhon nay aisay hi kiya, Jab Zohar ki namaz khatam ho gai to woh khaday ho kar kehnay lagay keh ham Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ka hawala day kar Ahal-e-Imaan say madad talab kartay hain, Hamari auratein aur hamaray betay hamaray suprad kar diye jayein.
Jab unhon nay yeh aelan kar diya to Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay farmaya: “Jo kuch meray pas hai aur jo kuch Banu Abdul Muttalib kay pas hai woh sab ka sab tumhara hai.” Jab Muhajireen nay yeh suna to sab kay sab pukar uthay keh jo kuch hamaray pas hai woh sab Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ka hai. Jab Ansaar nay yeh suna to woh pukar uthay keh hamaray pas jo kuch bhi hai woh Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ka hai.
(Sunan Nasaai, Kitab-ul-Hibah, باب: هبة المشاع: 3718, Seerat Ibn-e-Hishaam (586-587).)
Us din yeh manzar Ajeeb-o-Ghareeb tha, Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay Husan-e-Salook ki aala misal qaaim kar di aur Khuluq-e-Azeem ka muzahira kiya. Allah T’aala Sayyidah Sheema رضى الله عنها par Apni rahmat ki barkha barsaaye aur un kay sath ahsan bartao karay. Aameen Ya Rabb-ul-Aalameen!
Reference:
Book: Hayat-e-Sahaabiyaat kay Darakhshah pahelo.
Taleef: Mahmood T’ama Halbi
Mutarjim: Abu Ziya Mehmood Ahmad Ghaznofar Hafizahullah.