Sayyidah Tamazur Bint-e-Asbagh رضى الله عنها

 

Naik dil sachaai kay khoogar ki biwi:

 

Nam Tamazur, Walid ka nam Asbagh Bin Amar Bin Shalaba hai. Asbagh Banu Kulab ka sardar tha. Jab Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay Domat-ul-Jundal ki taraf lashkar bhejnay ka irada kiya to Sayyiduna Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه ko apnay pas bulaya. Yeh un Sahabah Karaam رضى الله عنهم mein say thay jinhein Jannat ki basharat di gai thi. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay un kay sar par Apnay mubarak hathon say pagdi bandhi aur pagdi kay aik hissay ko un kay kandhon par latka diya aur unhein Banu Kulaib ki taraf rawana honay ka hukum diya aur is baat ki ijazat di keh agar Allah nay fatah ata ki to Banu Kulaib kay badshah ki beti Tumazur kay sath shadi kar lena.

 

(Al-Isabah (1/70: 2/205, 3/453) Al-Istiaab (1/255) Tabqaat Ibn-e-Saad (2/89)(8/298))

 

Sayyiduna Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ka hukum pa kar Domat-ul-Jundal ki taraf rawana huaye. Lekin Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه kon hain? Un mein kon si khoobi thi jis ki bina par Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay unhein Lashkar-e-Islam ka Salaar-e-A’ala banaya tha? Is naik dil shakhas kay baray mein Urwa Bin Mugheera aur Hamza Bin Mugheera رضى الله عنهما bayan kartay hain keh ham donon nay Shuba Bin Mugheera رضى الله عنه ko yeh farmatay huaye suna:

“Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم tashreef laaye aur mein bhi Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم kay sath tha, Ham nay dekha keh log fajar ki namaz ada kar rahay hain aur Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه imamat kay faraaiz sar-anjam day rahay hain.”

Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ki tashreef aawri say pehlay Sayyiduna Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه pehli rakat padha chukay hain. Phir Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم tashreef lay aaye aur doosari rakat mein Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم Sayyiduna Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه kay pichay logon kay sath niyyat bandh kar namaz mein shamil ho gaye. Jab Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه nay salam phera to Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم apni baqiya namaz poori karnay kay liye khaday huaye. Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ko dekh kar log ghabra gaye aur unhon nay kasrat kay sath tasbihaat kehna shuru kar dein.

Jab Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay apni namaz poori kar li to logon say farmaya: “Tum nay theek kiya, Tum nay acha kiya.” (Sahih Muslim, Kitab-ul-Salah, باب: تقديم الجماعة من يلى بهم۔۔۔۔الخ: 105/275) Phir Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay farmaya:

 

“ماقبض نبى حتى يصلى خلف رجل صالح من ٱمته”

 

“Kisi Nabi ko us waqat tak moat nahin aati jab tak keh Us nay apni ummat kay saleh aadmi kay pichay namaz ada na kar li ho.”

 

(Tabqaat Ibn-e-Saad (3/129) Sifat-ul-Safwa (1/349))

 

Darmi mein Hamza Bin Mugheera رضى الله عنه say riwayat hai, Us nay apnay baap say bayan kiya, Woh farmatay hain keh jab ham qoam tak pohanchay to woh namaz kay liye khaday ho chukay thay. Unhein Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه namaz padha rahay thay. Unhon nay aik rakat namaz padha li thi, Jab unhon nay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ki tashreef aawri ko mehsoos kiya to woh pichay hatnay lagay. Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم nay unhein hath say ishara kiya to unhon nay Unhein namaz padhaai. Jab salam phera to Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم khaday huaye aur mein bhi khada huwa, Ham nay woh rakat poori ki jo ham say reh gai thi. (Sunan Al-Darami (1340). Sahih Muslim, Kitab-ul-Salah, باب: تقديم الجماعة من يصلى بهم۔۔۔۔۔الخ: 105/274) Yeh kitna bada sharaf hai jo Sayyiduna Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه nay Khulaq-e-Azeem kay pekar Nabi Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم say hasil kiya. Tirmizi mein Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ka aik farman mazkoor hai, Jis mein Sayyiduna Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه ki tareef ki gai hai. Tirmizi nay Abu Salma رضى الله عنه say aur unhon nay Sayyidah Ayesha Siddiqa رضى الله عنها say bayan kiya. Farmati hain keh Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم Azwaj-e-Mutahharat say yeh farmaya kartay thay:

 

“ان امرکن مما يهمنى بعدى وکن يصبر عليکن إلا الصبرون”

 

“Meray bad tumhara muamla mujhay aham mehsoos hota hai, Lekin sabar say aarasta meray Sahabah tumhara khayal rakhein gay.”

 

(Sunan Tirmizi, Kitab-ul-Manaqib, باب: مناقب عبدالرحمن بن عوف: 3749, Musnad-e-Ahmad (6/177).)

 

Sayyidah Umm-e-Salma رضى الله عنها farmati hain keh mein nay Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم say suna, Unhon nay Apni Azwaj-e-Mutahharat رصى الله عنهن say farmaya:

 

“ان الذين يحنو عليکن بعدى لهو الصادق البارى اللهم اسق عبد الرحمن بن عوف من سلسبيل الجنة”

 

“Bilashuba jo shakhas meray bad tumhara khayal rakhay ga woh sachaai ka khoogar naik dil ho ga. Ilahi! Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه ko Jannat kay Salsabeel chashmay say pani pilana.”

 

(Musnad-e-Ahmad (6/299))

 

Abu Salma رضى الله عنه say riwayat hai keh Sayyiduna Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه nay apnay bagh kay baray mein wasiyyat ki keh isay bech kar is ki qeemat Umahat-ul-Momineen رضى الله عنهن ko day di jaaye. Woh bagh chalees hazar (40000) dirham ka farokhat huwa aur sari raqam Umahat-ul-Momineen رضى الله عنهن mein taqseem kar di gai.

 

(Sunan Tirmizi, Kitab-ul-Manaqib, باب: مناقب عبدالرحمن بن عوف: 3750)

 

Jab Sayyiduna Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه Lashkar-e-Islam ki qeyadat kartay huaye Domat-ul-Jundal pohanchay to aap nay us kay bashindon kay samnay Islam ki dawat pesh ki. Unhon nay ba’khushi Islam ko qabool kar liya, Jis nay Islam qabool karnay say inkar kiya us say jizya wasool kiya gaya. Banu Kulaib qabeelay kay badshah ki beti nay bhi Islam qabool kar liya, Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه nay Asbagh Bin Amar say us ki beti ka rishta manga jo us nay manzoor kar liya aur apni beti ki shadi Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه kay sath kar di. (Tabqaat Ibn-e-Saad (2/89, 8/298) Al-Istiaab (1/255) Al-Isabah (2/205)) Shadi kay bad un kay han beta peda huwa jis ka nam Abu Salma Bin Abdul Rahman rakha gaya.

 

Infaq fi sabeelillah mein muawin biwi:

 

Yeh anokha aur nirala khawand jis kay sath Sayyidah Tumazur رضى الله عنها ki shadi hui, Woh hai jo apna Maal-o-Dolat Quraish kay pas chod kar Madina Munawwara pohanch gaya, Ta’keh Rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلم ka qurab hasil ho sakay. Unhon nay apnay Maal-o-Dolat say zayada Nabi Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم kay qurab ko tarjeeh di. Jab un kay deeni bhai Sayyiduna Saad Bin Rabee رضى الله عنه nay apna nisaf maal un kay sapurad karna chaha to unhon nay yeh maal lenay say inkar kar diya aur tijarat ki gharaz say mandi chalay gaye, Wahan unhon nay tijarat ka pesha apnaya aur halal kamaai say wafir miqdar mein maal jama kiya. Yeh baday kamiyab taajir thay. Allah T’aala nay unhein tijarat mein khoob nafa ata kiya. Sayyiduna Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه nay aik dafa apna nisaf maal Allah ki rah mein sadqa kar diya, Aik dafa chalees hazar (40000) deenar sadqay mein diye aur aik dafa panch so (500) ghoday aur panch so (500) oont Allah ki rah mein diye. (Mujam Kabeer Tabrani (265). Huliyat-ul-Awliya (1/51), عن الزهرى مرسلا, Tareekh-e-Damishaq (35/263).) In sadqaat kay bawjood Allah سبحانه وتعالى say bhot zayada dartay thay, Kiun’keh un kay Pesh-e-Nazar har dam Allah سبحانه وتعالى ka yeh farman rehta tha:

 

“وَاِذۡ تَاَذَّنَ رَبُّكُمۡ لَئِنۡ شَكَرۡتُمۡ لَاَزِيۡدَنَّـكُمۡ‌ وَلَئِنۡ كَفَرۡتُمۡ اِنَّ عَذَابِىۡ لَشَدِيۡدٌ‏ ۞”

 

“Aur yad karo jab tumharay Rab nay khabardar kar diya tha, Agar shukar guzaar bano gay to mein tumhein aur zayada nawazoon ga aur Kufran-e-Naimat karo gay to meri saza bhot sakhat hai.”

 

(Ibraheem:14/7) (Majma-ul-Zawaaid (7/108).)

 

Sachaai kay khoogar, Naik dil Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه say Allah kay Rasool صلى الله عليه وسلم razi ho gaye aur Allah bhi razi ho. Yeh khush naseebi hasil honay kay bad insan ko aur kya chahiye. Allah T’aala Abdul Rahman Bin Aouf رضى الله عنه, Un ki biwi Tumazur رضى الله عنها aur un kay betay Abu Salma رضى الله عنه par Apni rahmat ki barkha barsaaye aur unhein wafir miqdar mein Jazaa-e-Khair say nawazay. Aameen Ya Rabb-ul-Aalameen!

 

Reference:

 Book: Hayat-e-Sahaabiyaat kay Darakhshah pahelo.

Taleef: Mahmood T’ama Halbi

Mutarjim: Abu Ziya Mehmood Ahmad Ghaznofar Hafizahullah.