11. MAYYAT WALA GHAR [Home of Deceased person]
MAYYAT WALA GHAR:
Mayyat ke ghar khaana bhejwana sunnat hai.
[Sunan Abu Dawood: 1313; Ibn Majah: 1612; Tirmidhi: 998; Ahmad: 1/205]
Mayyat ke ghar waale kisi qism ki dawat ka intezam na kare.
[Musnad Ahmad: 2042; Ibn majah: 1612; Ahkaam ul janaiz li albani]
Maslan: ▫️▫️ Daswan, Chaaleswaan, barsi wagerah- Albatta aam zarurat ka khaana pakana karsakte hain- Awwam mein jo ye mashor hai keh mayyat wale ghar chulha jalana manaa hai yeh ghalat hai.
REFERENCE:
BOOK: “AURAT WAFFAT SE GHUSL O TAKFEEN TAK”
BY: UMM ABD MUNEEB.
Home of Deceased person
MAKING FOOD DOR THE DECEASED’S FAMILY:
It is recommended for the relatives and neighbours to make for the deceased’s family enough food to suffice them during the peak of their distress. When Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) learnt about the demise of Jafar, he commanded:
<Make food for Jafar’s family, because a matter has occurred diverting them (from normal life).>
Recorded by Abu Dawud, at-Tirmithl, and others. Verified to be hasan by al-Albani(Ahkam ul-Janaiz p. 211)
Ash-Shafn (ajfe) said:
“I urge the deceased’s neighbours or relatives to make enough food for the deceased’s family as to suffice them during the day and night of death. That is part of the Sunnah and a thoughtful good act, and is a practice of the generous people before and after us.”
Al-Umm 1: 247.
REFERENCE:
Book: FUNERALS REGULATIONS & EXHORTATIONS
By: MUHAMMAD MUSTAFA AL-JIBALY
میّت والا گھر
میّت والا گھر کھانا بھجوانا سنت ہے.
(سنن ابی داؤد ۱۳۱۳ابن ماجہ ۱۶۱۰’ ترمذی ۹۹۸احمد ۲۰۵/۱)
∆میّت کے گھر والے کسی قسم کی دعوت کا انتظام نہ کریں.
(مسند احمد ۲۰۴۲_ ابن ماجہ ۱۶۱۲_احکام الجنائزللابانی)
مثلاً قل ؛ تیجا؛ دسواں چالیسواں برسی وغیرہ البتّہ عام ضرورت کا کھانا پکانا کر سکتے ہیں عوام میں جو یہ مشہور ہے کے میّت والے گھر چولہا جلانا منع ہے یہ غلط ہے .