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15. DAURAAN-E-NIKAAH MUNKARAAT WA MUKHAALAFAT JINSE BACHNA ZARURI HAI [The Evils from which we should Abstain Ourselves]

Munkaraat wa mukhaalafat jinse bachna zaroori hai

 

  1. Bila wajah shari nikaah na karna aur rahbaaniyat ikhtiyaar karna mana hai.
  2. Bahut zyada mehr baandhkar muashare ko takleef may daalna.
  3. Dawat may sirf maaldaar ko bulaana aur ghareeb ko na bulaana.
  4. Time barbaad karna, waqt ki paabandi na karna.
  5. Bila wajah aur yaadgaar tasaaweer lena.
  6. Naachna.
  7. Gaana.
  8. Mausiqi.
  9. Traffic aur raaste kharaab karna ya rukaawat dalna.
  10. Ladke ka sona pehanna.
  11. Sharaab.
  12. Mard wa aurat ka aik doosre ki mushaabihat ikhtiyaar karna.
  13. Ikhtelaat.
  14. Fuzool kharchi.
  15. Sahra baandhna.
  16. Baatil tareekhe say maal khaana aur jahez.
  17. Baraat kay saath band baaja.
  18. Khutba say pehle tajdeed kalima karwaana.
  19. Haazireen nikaah ko chuwhaare taqseem karne ko laazim samajhna.
  20. Joota chappal ki chori ki rasam.
  21. Pair say doodh ka pyaala girakar ghar may daakhil hone ki rasm.
  22. Quraan sar par rakh kar ghar may daakhil hone ki rasm.
  23. Moonh dikhaayi ya ghar bharani ya chillah ki rasm shaadi aur zachgi kay baad.
  24. Muharram may shaadi na karna.
  25. Talaaq ki niyyat say nikaah karna.
  26. Ajnabi aurat say musafah.
  27. Apni biwi ko talaash karne kay liye auraton may chale jaana.
  28. Tight kapde pehanna.
  29. Mard ka takhne say neeche kapde latkaana.
  30. Daadhi mundhaana.
  31. Aurat ka khushboo lagaana.
  32. Aurat ki be pardagi.
  33. Aurat ka baareek ya chust kapde pehanna.
  34. Palkein ukhaadna (ilaaj, aib ya zarar door karne ki niyyat say chehre ya palkon say kuch baal nikaalna jaaiz hai lekin zeb wa zeenat kay liye nahi.
(Ibne Baaz)

 

  1. Baalon may baal lagaana.
  2. Tattoo banana.
  3. Shaadi ko baaqi rakhne ki gharz say wehmi rasmein/ makhsoos anghooti/patthar/challa/ maala/kaali pout ka lachcha/ taweezaat.

 

 

REFERNCE:
BOOK: “NIKAH SE MUTALIQ AHEM MALOOMAT”
BY: SHEIKH ARSHAD BASHEER UMARI MADANI

The Evils from which we should Abstain Ourselves

 

1. Not marrying without any valid reason.

2. Paying a lot of Mahr; thereby, burdening the society.

3. Inviting only rich to the feast and avoiding the poor.

4. Wasting time and not being punctual.

5. Photography for memory purpose, fake images.

6. Dancing.

7. Singing.

8. Musical Instruments.

9. Blocking the roads.

10. Bridegroom wearing gold.

11. Alcohol consumption.

12. Resembling the opposite gender.

13. Free mixing up of men and women.

14. Extravagancy.

15. “Sahra baandhna” i.e. wearing garlands of flower in wedding.

16. Eating up of wealth through falsehood.

17. Accompanying a band of music while coming to the house of bride.

18. Renewing the Kalimahs before performing the sermon of Nikaah.

19. Making it an obligation i.e. to distribute sweet after the sermon of Nikaah.

20. Stealing or Hiding the footwear of the bridegroom.

21. The bride entering into home by pushing the bowel of milk or rice.

22. The bride entering into home under the shadow of Mus’haf i.e. Quran.

23. Muh-dikhaai, ghar- bharani, Chilla etc.

24. Not marrying in month of Muharram.

25. Marrying with the intention of divorce.

26. Shaking hands with ghayr mahram women.

27. One wandering into the ladies section to find his wife.

28. Wearing tight clothes.

29. Men wearing garments below the ankles.

30. Shaving beard.

31. Women using perfume.

32. Unveiling of the women.

33. Women wearing revealing  clothes.

34. Plucking eyebrows (it is allowed for ilaaj (treatment) but not allowed for zeenath (beatification/adornment).

35. Using wigs (Fake hair).

36. Tattooing.

37. Practicing some superstitious beliefs and believing that it will help in the preservation of the marriages (kalipot ka laccha, special ring, stone, challa, mala, taweezaat,  chutka).

 

 

REFERENCE:
BOOK: “CRUCIAL INFORMATION RELATED TO NIKAH”
BY: SHEIKH ARSHAD BASHEER UMARI MADANI
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