23. LAMHA-E-FIKRIYAH AUR SABAQ [An Important Lesson]
Lamha-e-fikriyah aur sabaq
- Hum nay aasaan cheez ko mushkil bana diya. Nikaah kay rusoomaat mein bejaa kharch ki tayaari aur kamaayi kay liye paanch saal intezaar aur aaindaah kay mazeed 5 saal qarzon ki adaayegi may guzaar diye.
Shaadi, saadi ho na kay barbaadi.
Umar daraaz maang kay laaye the chaar din.
Do aarzoo mein kat gaye do intezaar mein.
Note:
Nikaah ka taluq choonkeh rishte qaaim karne say hai lehaaza huqooq-ul-waalidain aur deegar rishton ka zikr bataur yaad dehani kiya jaa raha hai.
Allaah kay fazal kay baad waalidain ki mahabbat aur sarparasti say tum shaadi ki Umar ko pahunch gaye.
Allaah ka ehsaan maano aur waalidain ka shukriya ada karo.
REFERENCE:
BOOK: “NIKAH SE MUTALIQ AHEM MALOOMAT”
BY: SHEIKH ARSHAD BASHEER UMARI MADANI
An Important Lesson
- We have made affordable matter as unaffordable. We have wasted five years of our life for preparing ourselves to make extravagant and vain expenses in marriage and another five years in settling the debts that we took to perform marriage. The institution of marriage has become a disaster:
“I have sought four days from my life span; two spent in longing and the rest in wait”.
عمر دراز مانگ کر الئے تھے چار دن
دو آرزو میں کٹ گئے دو انتظار میں
Note:
As marriage is related to tying up of relationships; we will mention here the rights of parents and other relatives as a reminder.
After the grace of Allaah, through the love and guardianship of your parents you have reached the age of marriage; so acknowledge the bounties of Allaah upon you and be grateful to your parents.
REFERENCE:
BOOK: “CRUCIAL INFORMATION RELATED TO NIKAH”
BY: SHEIKH ARSHAD BASHEER UMARI MADANI