Sayyidah Umm-e-Hakeem رضى الله عنها

 

Khandani Pas-e-Manzar:

 

Nam Umm-e-Hakeem, Walid ka nam Haris Bin Hishaam Bin Mugheera aur khawand ka nam Ikarma Bin Abi Jahal tha. Umm-e-Hakeem aur us ka khawand ibtida mein Islam kay shadeed tareen mukhalif thay. Us ka susar Abu Jahal Islam ka sakhat tareen dushman aur Islam ka rasta roknay walon ka sardar tha.

Abu Jahal Jang-e-Badar mein Afra kay beton kay hathon buri tarah qatal huwa. Woh zakhmi ho kar zameen par gira huwa tha kay us kay pas say Sayyiduna Abdullah Bin Masood رضى الله عنه ka guzar huwa. Sayyidahina Abdullah Bin Masood رضى الله عنه nay dekha keh Abu Jahal aakhri sansein lay raha hai to unhon nay us ko apnay paon say thokar mari aur phir us ka sar kaat kar Rasoolullah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ki khidmat mein pesh kar diya. Aap صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم nay jab is ummat kay Firaon ka sar dekha to AllahT’aala ka shukar ada kiya.

Jab Ikarma nay is baat ka mushahada kar liya keh us ka baap apnay anjam ko pohanch chuka hai to us kay dil mein Rasoolullah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم aur musalmanon kay khilaf ghussa, Bughaz aur keena aur zayada badh gaya. Idhar Safwan ka walid Umayya Bin Khalaf bhi Medan-e-Badar mein qatal ho gaya tha. Ikarma aur Safwan nay Badar kay maqtooleen ka badla lenay ka azam kiya aur yeh muahida taye pa gaya keh ab musalmanon kay sath muqabila Medan-e-Uhad mein hoga. Quraish nay yeh fesla kiya keh is bar khawateen bhi markay mein hissa lenay kay liye rawana hon gi, Taa’keh woh mardon ko hosla dein aur ladai par un kay dilon mein bahaduri ka ahsas peda karein.

Hind Bint-e-Utbah, Abu Sufyan Bin Harab kay sath thein. Reeta Bint-e-Utba Amar Bin Aas kay sath, Umm-e-Hakeem Bin Haris, Ikarma Bin Abi Jahal kay sath aur Barza Bint-e-Masood, Safwan Bin Umayya kay sath jang kay liye rawana huien.

Jang-e-Uhad mein Quraish ka palla bhari huwa. Is liye keh musalman teer andazon nay pahad ka darra chod diya tha. Unhon nay apnay qaaid ki hukum-adooli ki thi. Is liye jang ka pansa musalmanon kay khilaf palat gaya.

 

(Seerat Ibn-e-Hishaam (2/61-63) Seerat-ul-Nabi Libn-e-Kaseer (3/21-25)) Ghazwa-e-Khandaq mein Ikarma nay bhi Quraish kay sath Raah-e-Farar ikhtiyar ki thi.

 

Fatah-e-Makkah kay din islam qabool karna:

 

Fatah-e-Makkah kay din log joq-dar-joq Daaira-e-Islam mein dakhil honay lagay lekin Ikarma Bin Abu Jahal khof’zada ho kar Yaman ki taraf bhag gaya. Hind Bint-e-Utba ko yaqeen aa gaya keh Islam ghalib aa gaya hai. Ab Quraish Islam ka muqabila nahin kar sakein gay. Woh Umm-e-Hakeem aur baaz deegar khawateen ko lay kar Rasoolullah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ki khidmat mein hazir huien ta’keh tamam khawateen Rasoolullah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ki bait kar lein aur Islam qabool karnay ki s’aadat say behrawar ho jayein.

Jab Umm-e-Hakeem nay Rasoolullh صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ki bait kar kay Islam qabool kar liya to Rasoolullah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم say apnay khawand Ikarma Bin Abu Jahal kay liye zamanat talab ki to Aap صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم nay unhein zamanat day di. Woh apnay khawand ki talash mein samundar ki taraf gaien, Jab woh saahil par pohanchein to woh Yaman janay kay liye kashti par sawar ho rahay thay. Sayyidah Umm-e-Hakeem رضى الله عنها nay aagay badh kar unhein janay say rok liya aur kaha: Aap kahin nahin jayein gay, Mein nay Rasoolullah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم say aap ki zamanat lay li hai aur sath hi usay baataya keh Aap صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم sab logon say behtar, Bartar, Husan-e-Akhlaq kay paikar aur hamdarad hain.

Ikarma apni biwi ki baatein sun kar mutmein huwa aur us kay sath Makkah Muazzamah wapis aa gaya aur us nay Islam qabool kar liya.

 

(Muatta Imam Malik (2/544) Mustadrak Hakim (3/240) Sunan Kubra Baihaqi (7/187) Dalaail-ul-Nubuwwah (5/72, 150).)

 

Umm-e-Hakeem رضى الله عنها ki jihad kay sath mahabbaat:

 

Islam qabool karnay kay bad Ikarma رضى الله عنه mein yeh inqilab aaya keh woh Islam kay mukhalifeen ka sakhat tareen dushman ban gaya. Woh Khalid Bin Waleed رضى الله عنه kay sath Roomiyon kay sath nabazad aazma honay kay liye Jang-e-Yarmook mein shareek huaye. Jab zor ka ran pada to Ikarma nay Jazba-e-Shahadat say sar’shar ho kar kaha keh aaj moat par meri bait kon karay ga?

Khalid Bin Waleed رضى الله عنه nay kaha keh apnay aap ko moat kay munh mein dhakelnay ki baaten na karo. Unhon nay Jazba-e-Jihad say sar’shar ho kar Khalid Bin Waleed رضى الله عنه say kaha keh aaj mujhay chod do, Mein un tamam kotahiyon ka kaffara dena chahta hoon jo meri ya meray baap ki taraf say Islam kay khilaf sarzad hoti rahein. Aaj mein saaray dhonay dhona chahta hoon. Yeh kehtay huaye woh dushman ki safon mein ghus gaye aur ghamsan ki ladai mein Daad-e-Shuja’at detay huaye Jam-e-Shahadat nosh kar gaye.

 

(Al-Istiaab (1/333) Usd-ul-Ghabah (2/282) Tareekh-e-Damishaq Libn-e-Asaakir (41/69))

 

Jab Umm-e-Hakeem رضى الله عنها nay iddat poori kar li to Khalid Bin Saeed رضى الله عنه nay un say shadi kar li aur waleemay ka ahtimam “مرج الصفر” Muraj-ul-Safar nami pul kay pas kiya. Bad mein us pul ka nam Umm-e-Hakeem kay nam say mosoom kar diya gaya. Waleemay say farigh ho kar Khalid Bin Saeed رضى الله عنه Roomiyon kay khilaf ladnay kay liye medan mein niklay aur ladtay ladtay Jaam-e-Shahadat nosh kar gaye. Jab Umm-e-Hakeem رضى الله عنها nay yeh Soorat-e-Haal dekhi to khaimay ki aik lath pakad kar us kay sath sat (7) dushmanon ko Wasil-e-Jahannam kiya. (Al-Istiaab (2/127) Al-Isabah (4/84).)

Allah سبحانه وتعالى Umm-e-Hakeem رضى الله عنها par Apni rahmat ka saya daraz karay aur unhein Jannat-ul-Firdous mein jaga ata karay. Aameen!

 

Reference:

 Book: Hayat-e-Sahaabiyaat kay Darakhshah pahelo.

Taleef: Mahmood T’ama Halbi

Mutarjim: Abu Ziya Mehmood Ahmad Ghaznofar Hafizahullah.