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18. SHAUHAR AUR BIWI KAY HUQOOQ [The Rights of a Husband & Wife]

Shauhar kay huqooq

 

1. Haq-e-zaujiyat ki adaayegi.

(Tirmizi: 1160)

 

2. Shauhar ki qawwaamiyat tasleem kare.

(Surah Nisa: 34, Tirmizi: 1159)

 

3. Shauhar ki itaat (Islami daayareh mein).

(Ibn Maajah: 4163)

 

4. Shauhar kay liye madadgaar bane (Islami daayareh mein). 

(Tirmizi:1163)

 

5. Gham, takleef aur bure haalaat may aik doosre kay liye tasalli ka zariya bane.

(Bukhari: 2297)

 

6. Shauhar ki ghair maujoodgi may apni izzat aur uske maal ki hifazat.

(Haakim: 2682)

 

7. Bila uzr sharai shauhar ki ijaazat kay baghair uska maal kharch karna.

(Tirmizi: 670)

 

8. Apna maal kharch karte waqt shauhar say mashwara lena behtar hai, taake maahaul khush gawaar bana rahe.

(Abu Dawood: 3547)

 

9. Shauhar jise na pasand kare use ghar mein daakhil na karna.

(Bukhari: 5195)

 

10. Shauhar ki naa shukri say ijtenaab.

(Bukhari: 304)

 

11. Shauhar ki ijaazat kay baghair nafli roza na rakhna.

(Bukhari: 5195)

 

12. Ghar say baahar nikalna ho to shauhar ki ijaazat ka qayaal rakha jaaye.

 (Surah Ahzaab:33)

 

13. Shauhar ko ghar tabdeel karne ki zaroorat ho to uska saath day. 

(Surah Talaaq: 6)

 

14. Shauhar ko yeh haq bhi haasil hai kay woh baek waqt aik say zyada yane chaar tak biwiyan rakh sakta hai.

 (Surah Nisa: 3)

 

15. Haq-e-talaaq (zulm wa sitam kay hal ka Islami tareeqah).

(Surah Talaaq: 1)

 

Bila wajah talaaq ka istemaal qiyaamat kay din qaabile baaz-purs hai.

 

16. Haq Viraasat.

(Surah Nisa: 12)

 

Biwi kay huqooq

 

1. Haq-e-zaujiyat ki adaayegi. 

(Bukhari: 1975)

 

2. Ayyam-e-mahaawari may ijtenaab.

(Surah Bakharah: 222)

 

3. Ramzan kay dinon may roze ki haalat may ijtenaab.

(Bukhari: 1937)

 

4. Dubur may jimaa say ijtenaab.

(Abu Dawood: 1894)

 

5. Mehr ki adaayegi (qawwaamiyat ka taqaazah).

(Surah Nisa: 4)

 

6. Rihaish ka bandobast (qawwaamiyyat ka taqaazah).

(Surah Talaaq: 6)

 

7. Naan wa nafaqah ka bandobast 

(qawwaamiyyat ka taqaazah).

(Surah Talaaq: 7)

 

8. Kapdon ka bandobast.

 (Abu Dawood: 2142)

 

9. Husn-e-sulook.

(Surah Nisa: 19)

 

10. Biwi ke liye madadgaar bane.

 

11. Gham, takleef aur bure haalaat mein aik doosre kay liye tasalli ka zariya bane.

 (Bukhari: 2279)

 

12. Biwi ki izzat wa aabroo ki hifazat.

(Sahih al-Jaami: 3314)

 

13. Biwi ko zaroori had tak taleem haasil karne ki ijaazat day.

(Surah Tahreem: 6)

 

14. Mutadid biwiyan hon to adal wa insaaf kare.

(Sura Nisa: 3)

 

15. Naaraazgi ki soorat may biwi ko ghar say na nikaalna.

 (Ibn Maajah: 1850)

 

16. Haq-e-qula (zulm wa sitam kay hal ka islaami tareeqa).

(Bukhari: 5273)

 

Zaroorat kay waqt biwi ko qula ka haq hai bila wajah qula talab karna nifaaq ki alaamat hai.

17. Haq viraasat.

(Surah Nisa: 12)

 

18. Talaaq ki soorat may izzat kay saath rawana karna zaleel na karna.

(Surah Bakharah: 231)

 

 

REFERENCE:
BOOK: “NIKAH SE MUTALIQ AHEM MALOOMAT”
BY: SHEIKH ARSHAD BASHEER UMARI MADANI

The Rights of a Husband

 

1. Fulfil the right of intimacy.

(Sunan Tirmidhi: 1160)

 

2. To accept the leadership (Qawwamiyat) of a man.

(4:34; Sunan Tirmidhi: 1159)

 

3. To obey the husband.

 (Sahih Ibn Hibban: 4163)

 

4. To assist the husband (in the Islamic boundaries).

(Sunan Tirmidhi: 1163)

 

5. To console each other during the times of distress and difficulties.

(Sahih Bukhari: 2297)

 

6. To protect his honour and wealth in the absence of husband.

(Mustadrak of Hakim: 2682)

 

7. Don’t spend his money (invalidly in terms of Shariah) without his permission.

(Sunan Tirmidhi: 670)

 

8. Seek counsel from your husband before spending your money so that there exists a lovely environment.

(Sunan Abu Dawood: 3547)

 

9. Not to allow those persons in the home (whom your husband dislikes).

(Sahih Bukhari: 5195)

 

10. Refrain from being ungrateful to the husband.

(Sahih Bukhari: 304)

 

11. You cannot fast (Supererogatory) without your husband’s consent.

 (Sahih Bukhari: 5195)

 

12. Be mindful of your husband’s honour while leaving the home.

(Surah Ahzab: 33)

 

13. Assist your husband if he wants to change his home.

(Surah Talaq: 6)

 

14. A husband has a right to marry up to four wives at a time.

(Surah Nisaa: 3)

 

15. He can seek divorce if needed (The Islamic solution to oppression and transgression).

(Surah Talaq: 1)

 

16. The right of inheritance.

(Surah Nisaa: 12)

 

The Rights of a Wife

 

1. Fulfilling the right of intimacy.

(Sahih Bukhari: 1975)

 

2. Abstaining from the right of intimacy during the days of menstruation.

(Surah Baqarah: 222)

 

3. Abstaining from the right of intimacy during the days of Ramadaan.

(Sahih Bukhari: 1937)

 

4. Prohibition of anal sex

(Sunan Abu Dawood: 1894)

 

5. Giving her mahr.

(Surah Nisaa: 4)

 

6. Providing her shelter.

(Surah Talaq: 6)

 

7. Providing her provision.

(Surah Talaq: 7)

 

8. Providing her clothes.

 (Sunan Abu Dawood: 2142)

 

9. Good Behaviour.

 (Surah Nisaa: 19)

 

10. To co-ordinate with the wife in all of her good affairs.

(Bukhari: 676)

 

11. To console her during the times of distress and difficulties.

(Sahih Bukhari: 2297)

 

12. To protect her honour and respect.

(Sahih ul Jaami: 3314)

 

13. To allow her to educate herself up to a required extent.

(Surah Tahreem: 6)

 

14. To be just among the wives.

(Surah Nisaa: 3)

 

15. To not to dispel his wife outside of the home. (while in a state of displeasure)

 (Sunan Ibn Majah: 1850)

 

16. The right of seeking Khula.

(Sahih Bukhari: 5273)

 

17. The right of seeking inheritance.

(Surah Nisaa: 12)

 

18. To divorce her with due honour and not through humiliation.

 (Surah Baqarah: 231)

 

 

REFERENCE:
BOOK: “CRUCIAL INFORMATION RELATED TO NIKAH”
BY: SHEIKH ARSHAD BASHEER UMARI MADANI
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