18. SHAUHAR AUR BIWI KAY HUQOOQ [The Rights of a Husband & Wife]
Shauhar kay huqooq
1. Haq-e-zaujiyat ki adaayegi.
(Tirmizi: 1160)
2. Shauhar ki qawwaamiyat tasleem kare.
(Surah Nisa: 34, Tirmizi: 1159)
3. Shauhar ki itaat (Islami daayareh mein).
(Ibn Maajah: 4163)
4. Shauhar kay liye madadgaar bane (Islami daayareh mein).
(Tirmizi:1163)
5. Gham, takleef aur bure haalaat may aik doosre kay liye tasalli ka zariya bane.
(Bukhari: 2297)
6. Shauhar ki ghair maujoodgi may apni izzat aur uske maal ki hifazat.
(Haakim: 2682)
7. Bila uzr sharai shauhar ki ijaazat kay baghair uska maal kharch karna.
(Tirmizi: 670)
8. Apna maal kharch karte waqt shauhar say mashwara lena behtar hai, taake maahaul khush gawaar bana rahe.
(Abu Dawood: 3547)
9. Shauhar jise na pasand kare use ghar mein daakhil na karna.
(Bukhari: 5195)
10. Shauhar ki naa shukri say ijtenaab.
(Bukhari: 304)
11. Shauhar ki ijaazat kay baghair nafli roza na rakhna.
(Bukhari: 5195)
12. Ghar say baahar nikalna ho to shauhar ki ijaazat ka qayaal rakha jaaye.
(Surah Ahzaab:33)
13. Shauhar ko ghar tabdeel karne ki zaroorat ho to uska saath day.
(Surah Talaaq: 6)
14. Shauhar ko yeh haq bhi haasil hai kay woh baek waqt aik say zyada yane chaar tak biwiyan rakh sakta hai.
(Surah Nisa: 3)
15. Haq-e-talaaq (zulm wa sitam kay hal ka Islami tareeqah).
(Surah Talaaq: 1)
Bila wajah talaaq ka istemaal qiyaamat kay din qaabile baaz-purs hai.
16. Haq Viraasat.
(Surah Nisa: 12)
Biwi kay huqooq
1. Haq-e-zaujiyat ki adaayegi.
(Bukhari: 1975)
2. Ayyam-e-mahaawari may ijtenaab.
(Surah Bakharah: 222)
3. Ramzan kay dinon may roze ki haalat may ijtenaab.
(Bukhari: 1937)
4. Dubur may jimaa say ijtenaab.
(Abu Dawood: 1894)
5. Mehr ki adaayegi (qawwaamiyat ka taqaazah).
(Surah Nisa: 4)
6. Rihaish ka bandobast (qawwaamiyyat ka taqaazah).
(Surah Talaaq: 6)
7. Naan wa nafaqah ka bandobast
(qawwaamiyyat ka taqaazah).
(Surah Talaaq: 7)
8. Kapdon ka bandobast.
(Abu Dawood: 2142)
9. Husn-e-sulook.
(Surah Nisa: 19)
10. Biwi ke liye madadgaar bane.
11. Gham, takleef aur bure haalaat mein aik doosre kay liye tasalli ka zariya bane.
(Bukhari: 2279)
12. Biwi ki izzat wa aabroo ki hifazat.
(Sahih al-Jaami: 3314)
13. Biwi ko zaroori had tak taleem haasil karne ki ijaazat day.
(Surah Tahreem: 6)
14. Mutadid biwiyan hon to adal wa insaaf kare.
(Sura Nisa: 3)
15. Naaraazgi ki soorat may biwi ko ghar say na nikaalna.
(Ibn Maajah: 1850)
16. Haq-e-qula (zulm wa sitam kay hal ka islaami tareeqa).
(Bukhari: 5273)
Zaroorat kay waqt biwi ko qula ka haq hai bila wajah qula talab karna nifaaq ki alaamat hai.
17. Haq viraasat.
(Surah Nisa: 12)
18. Talaaq ki soorat may izzat kay saath rawana karna zaleel na karna.
(Surah Bakharah: 231)
REFERENCE:
BOOK: “NIKAH SE MUTALIQ AHEM MALOOMAT”
BY: SHEIKH ARSHAD BASHEER UMARI MADANI
The Rights of a Husband
1. Fulfil the right of intimacy.
(Sunan Tirmidhi: 1160)
2. To accept the leadership (Qawwamiyat) of a man.
(4:34; Sunan Tirmidhi: 1159)
3. To obey the husband.
(Sahih Ibn Hibban: 4163)
4. To assist the husband (in the Islamic boundaries).
(Sunan Tirmidhi: 1163)
5. To console each other during the times of distress and difficulties.
(Sahih Bukhari: 2297)
6. To protect his honour and wealth in the absence of husband.
(Mustadrak of Hakim: 2682)
7. Don’t spend his money (invalidly in terms of Shariah) without his permission.
(Sunan Tirmidhi: 670)
8. Seek counsel from your husband before spending your money so that there exists a lovely environment.
(Sunan Abu Dawood: 3547)
9. Not to allow those persons in the home (whom your husband dislikes).
(Sahih Bukhari: 5195)
10. Refrain from being ungrateful to the husband.
(Sahih Bukhari: 304)
11. You cannot fast (Supererogatory) without your husband’s consent.
(Sahih Bukhari: 5195)
12. Be mindful of your husband’s honour while leaving the home.
(Surah Ahzab: 33)
13. Assist your husband if he wants to change his home.
(Surah Talaq: 6)
14. A husband has a right to marry up to four wives at a time.
(Surah Nisaa: 3)
15. He can seek divorce if needed (The Islamic solution to oppression and transgression).
(Surah Talaq: 1)
16. The right of inheritance.
(Surah Nisaa: 12)
The Rights of a Wife
1. Fulfilling the right of intimacy.
(Sahih Bukhari: 1975)
2. Abstaining from the right of intimacy during the days of menstruation.
(Surah Baqarah: 222)
3. Abstaining from the right of intimacy during the days of Ramadaan.
(Sahih Bukhari: 1937)
4. Prohibition of anal sex
(Sunan Abu Dawood: 1894)
5. Giving her mahr.
(Surah Nisaa: 4)
6. Providing her shelter.
(Surah Talaq: 6)
7. Providing her provision.
(Surah Talaq: 7)
8. Providing her clothes.
(Sunan Abu Dawood: 2142)
9. Good Behaviour.
(Surah Nisaa: 19)
10. To co-ordinate with the wife in all of her good affairs.
(Bukhari: 676)
11. To console her during the times of distress and difficulties.
(Sahih Bukhari: 2297)
12. To protect her honour and respect.
(Sahih ul Jaami: 3314)
13. To allow her to educate herself up to a required extent.
(Surah Tahreem: 6)
14. To be just among the wives.
(Surah Nisaa: 3)
15. To not to dispel his wife outside of the home. (while in a state of displeasure)
(Sunan Ibn Majah: 1850)
16. The right of seeking Khula.
(Sahih Bukhari: 5273)
17. The right of seeking inheritance.
(Surah Nisaa: 12)
18. To divorce her with due honour and not through humiliation.
(Surah Baqarah: 231)
REFERENCE:
BOOK: “CRUCIAL INFORMATION RELATED TO NIKAH”
BY: SHEIKH ARSHAD BASHEER UMARI MADANI