19. DULHA AUR DULHAN KAY LIYE NASEEHATEIN [Some Advices to the Bride and the Bridegroom]
Dulha aur dulhan kay liye chand naseehatein
1. Biwi kay saath acche andaaz may guzar basar kare.
2. Uski izzat wa takreem kare.
3. Uske rishtedaaron kay saath bhi husn-e-sulook kare.
4. Usko aaraam wa raahat pahunchaye.
5. Dulhan ko chahiye kay woh apne shauhar ki qidmat aur uss kay huqooq ki adaayegi mein kotaa hi na kare.
6. Beja ghairat aur shak wa shubah mein na padhe.
7. Yeh samjhe kay uski izzat shauhar say hai.
8. Gusse ki haalat mai munh band rakhe.
9. Safayi suthraayi, zeb wa zeenat, banaao singaar, khushboo wagairah ka istemaal apne shauhar kay liye kare.
10. Ghar may itr ka istemaal kare.
11. Safayi suthraayi mein in umoor ki badi ahmiyat hai jinhein Kutub-e-Ahaadees mein sunan fitrat kay unwaan say zikr kiya gaya hai: Qatnah, zere naaf moondna, munchein katrana, naaqoon kaatna aur baghal kay baal ukhedna.
REFERENCE:
BOOK: “NIKAH SE MUTALIQ AHEM MALOOMAT”
BY: SHEIKH ARSHAD BASHEER UMARI MADANI
Some Advices to the Bride and the Bridegroom
1. To honourably live with the wife.
2. To respect and dignify her.
3. To respect her relatives as well.
4. To provide her peace and tranquillity.
5. The bride shouldn’t be negligent in fulfilling the rights of her husband.
6. Not to be suspicious and doubtful unnecessarily.
7. The bride should be mindful of the fact i.e. her honour comes from her husband.
8. Not to speak in a state of anger.
9. To adorn herself for the sake of husband.
10. To use fragrance in the home.
11. To purify oneself by removing the nails, pubic hair, armpits hair etc.
REFERENCE:
BOOK: “CRUCIAL INFORMATION RELATED TO NIKAH”
BY: SHEIKH ARSHAD BASHEER UMARI MADANI